Child forced to drink own urine

Dimple said:
No they're not, they'd be looking all over the place and fidgeting.
I'm not even going to debate this because it's ludicrous to suggest otherwise.
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I've seen kids lie outright without even a second thought.

Especially when it comes to abuse they make things up and change their stories.

If this went to the police it would be a right old mess proving anything.
 
I'd skip the teacher and go straight to the police to report the crime of child abuse. They'll then get in contact with social services.
 
I don't "let him stay there" she the ex has custody of the children.

The teacher suggestion is because they go home tomorrow after school and want an independent professional to have heard this before mother gets the children to keep shut about the abuse.

the police and social services will be called first thing in the morning, by me and a teacher under the duty of care they hold over the children.

leverage of a teacher and a parent without care will force action.

I hope!
 
Ahleckz said:
Whilst drinking urine won't do any harm, it's awful behaviour.
Children shouldn't be punished for wetting the bed, and even if you were to be punished I can't think of a more draconian and inappropriate punishment.
Frankly shocking.
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In this case it could do a lot of harm as it was rung out of the soaked bedsheets carrying any other debris and germs / bugs with it, and also its going to be no good mentally for a 6 year old kid.
 
UncleRuckus said:
He said "smacks" plural, more than once.
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Parents smack children, I have smacked my boys when it was required doesn't mean I am a bad parent or person, although if the uncle is smacking the children that's wrong but the mother should be allowed within reason.

A lot of assumptions for one word.
 
Hang on, uncle or the mums partner?

Does she know about this? First of all tell her, then the police and social services.
 
:mad: If that was my child I would go ****ing ape ****. What an utterly vile thing to do to a child, please make sure he isn't left in their care again Richand!
 
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Colbaker said:
Parents smack children, I have smacked my boys when it was required doesn't mean I am a bad parent or person, although if the uncle is smacking the children that's wrong but the mother should be allowed within reason.

A lot of assumptions for one word.
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Yup, nothing wrong with smacking children.
 
Colbaker said:
Parents smack children, I have smacked my boys when it was required doesn't mean I am a bad parent or person, although if the uncle is smacking the children that's wrong but the mother should be allowed within reason.
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My point of contention is that a person who is not the child's parent is hitting his child. :rolleyes:
 
Jeepers.

FWIW I think you're handling it correctly Richand. If you don't have custody you have to be very careful how you step - something made all the more difficult by how outrageous the situation is.

I wish you all the best in getting it sorted. That turd fondler shouldn't be allowed anywhere near children.
 
oh the mother is a "smacker" and also a idiot but I digress.

No one including myself should smack a child even if its your own, ESPECIALLY a 6 year old.

you are just venting your own anger by lashing out at your child who has annoyed you, control yourself and stop going caveman on your kid.

people saying call the police, how will that help at this point in time, all that will do is scare the **** out of him, imagine how a 6 year old views a police officer in uniform turning up before school to question him about his family abusing him, which he may not even see as abuse.
 
Richand said:
Hey guys,

If you saw the title in a headline of a paper you would be shocked right?

well, my child who is 6 years old told me tonight that his uncle who lives with his mother did this to him after he wet his bed.

apparently they wrung the sheets and his PJ trousers into a cup and forced him to drink it as punishment for wetting the bed.

obviously I'm fuming and full of anger, this man hates my guts, has done for a very long time which tbh, I couldn't give a crap about his threats towards me, much bigger guy than me and is a downright bully.

he also smacks my children for reasons the children don't know, they are honest kids and would admit to wrong doing, I have never laid a finger on them, they are clever enough to be reasoned with.

in the morning I will be getting my son to admit this story in front of his teacher and will be going to the social services, I believe its criminal but we shall see....

anyway, just wanted some venting space and being a long time lurker/poster on here I feel its a place which will offer support and advice in a real world no-nonsense way, unlike mumsnet! lol
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1. Kids make up stuff sometimes but there's no real way to prove this has happened so I'd just not let him take care of your son from now on.

2. Every parent thinks this when your kid is that age.

3. Are you kidding me?



Report it to the police as a reason why his mother can no longer have access.
That is if you're the one who has custody of him.
 
bhavv said:
In this case it could do a lot of harm as it was rung out of the soaked bedsheets carrying any other debris and germs / bugs with it, and also its going to be no good mentally for a 6 year old kid.
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I obviously meant that the urine itself won't do any harm physically/medically. It's also unlikely that the bed is in such a squalid state that it would cause problems.

Obviously, it's not good mentally hence why I stated it's totally inappropriate.
 
Oh my absolute god. I'm speechless but still had to post here. If someone did this to my kid, I honestly would find it hard to hold back. Perhaps that is the plan? Are they trying to get you to do something irrational to jepordise you seeing your children? Simple thing to do is go straight to the police surely? Don't worry about teachers. Police. That's A1 child abuse on both counts of the slapping and treatment with urine. I don't understand why someone would do that to a child. If their mindset genuinely is that it will stop him doing it again, then they have to be the thickest people on earth? It would make it ten times worse and make the poor boy even more likely to do it again through the stress. You need to take your children away if they are getting beaten.
Man I feel sorry for you and your kids.
 
It's going to be so hard to prove anything. It should definitely be investigated but proving it is going to be near on impossible.
 
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