Child forced to drink own urine

Richand said:
people saying call the police, how will that help at this point in time.
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Well I'm not a parent, so take it as you will...

But I wouldn't be returning the children back to their mother as per the custody schedule. She will of course call the police if you simply don't return them. Can you justify keeping hold of the kids for their own safety effective immediately, if you call the police?
 
Richand said:
oh the mother is a "smacker" and also a idiot but I digress.

No one including myself should smack a child even if its your own, ESPECIALLY a 6 year old.

you are just venting your own anger by lashing out at your child who has annoyed you, control yourself and stop going caveman on your kid.

people saying call the police, how will that help at this point in time, all that will do is scare the **** out of him, imagine how a 6 year old views a police officer in uniform turning up before school to question him about his family abusing him, which he may not even see as abuse.
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Well then just let him continue feeding your children urine and beating him.

How can you even let them spend another night there if this is a possibility, what is wrong with you?
 
Sod the police and stand up for your children, i would at least be round there now confronting him.

Phone your X and ask her wtf is going on maybe a start?
 
Richand said:
oh the mother is a "smacker" and also a idiot but I digress.

No one including myself should smack a child even if its your own, ESPECIALLY a 6 year old.

you are just venting your own anger by lashing out at your child who has annoyed you, control yourself and stop going caveman on your kid.

people saying call the police, how will that help at this point in time, all that will do is scare the **** out of him, imagine how a 6 year old views a police officer in uniform turning up before school to question him about his family abusing him, which he may not even see as abuse.
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The police will inform social services.
Or your local social services will have a duty desk that run 24 hours a day, you can call them now and they will log the call and decide if a visit is needed.

If you are concerned enough then you will bloody do something about it, telling a teacher will do nothing.
 
Richand said:
people saying call the police, how will that help at this point in time, all that will do is scare the **** out of him, imagine how a 6 year old views a police officer in uniform turning up before school to question him about his family abusing him, which he may not even see as abuse.
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A) I'm sure it would be classed as abuse
B) I'm would assume if he wants to get sole custody/restraining order, then he will have to report it to police.
But then really I'm just guessing.
Terriable thing and terriable situation to be in, but I would be straight on the phone to solicitors and social services/cab/appropriate charity/organization for help and how to go about this.

Oh you're the op, what an odd response.
 
Oh wow, this sort of thing could really psychologically affect the kid for the rest of his life. This needs to be dealt with. Hope you can get it sorted out, I would persue the official channels first and see what happens there before doing anything rash.
 
Richand said:
oh the mother is a "smacker" and also a idiot but I digress.

No one including myself should smack a child even if its your own, ESPECIALLY a 6 year old.

you are just venting your own anger by lashing out at your child who has annoyed you, control yourself and stop going caveman on your kid.

people saying call the police, how will that help at this point in time, all that will do is scare the **** out of him, imagine how a 6 year old views a police officer in uniform turning up before school to question him about his family abusing him, which he may not even see as abuse.
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I disagree, true I don't smack my 6 year old boy because he understands and has done for years, I have smacked my oldest boy twice when he was younger none of which through anger or frustration, it was not to hurt and more to shock because both times he was doing something extremely dangerous, he did not do either again.

If you keep smacking your child, especially when they are old enough to understand words then it is obviously not working, and I agree you should never smack through anger and frustration or to cause long term pain.
 
Like everyone is saying, getting the relevant authorities involved is the most sensible route, but oh my, if I were you I'd probably be in jail now, not sure I could control myself. I'm not a violent person, but things like this make me absolutely mental.:mad:
 
This thread makes me sad.

OP - Take this through social services immediately. I know from my own scenario how hard it is when you have to see your child living elsewhere, that in itself is hard enough, but what you have described must be making you rage inside - The only way to deal with this is social services and I would also advise talking to a lawyer about custody if it is found to be true what has happened.

Hope it all works out.
 
Richand said:
oh the mother is a "smacker" and also a idiot but I digress.

No one including myself should smack a child even if its your own, ESPECIALLY a 6 year old.
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Especially six year olds need to be smacked. I was smacked by my parents and my school. They were not taking their anger out on me, but showing me my actions were unacceptable. I was a child and it was language I understood.
 
No one including myself should smack a child even if its your own, ESPECIALLY a 6 year old.

you are just venting your own anger by lashing out at your child who has annoyed you, control yourself and stop going caveman on your kid.
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Firstly, that's ridiculous. There are ******* out there that hit their children in anger - I was one of them and hated him for it. However, smacking your child in a controlled manner is completely different. There is no anger, it's done as a punishment and doesn't harm the child.

To the OP, I feel sorry for you in your situation. I can understand others saying how they would break the guys legs and I also would find it very difficult to not attack him but you are doing the right thing in not doing so. You can't help your boy if you are in prison. If it was me though in your position I would have rang the police straight away, he needs to be removed from that environment now and I can assure you the police and social services would act on it immediately.
 
Not really sure what to think about this. Part of me wonders why you haven't gone absolutely off it by now...

Either way, get the police involved and for gods sake don't allow your children to go anywhere near him/them again.
 
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soundood said:
PHONE THE POLICE
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I have NO idea how you haven't done anything yet and how you think that talking to a teacher is an appropriate way to deal with the fact that someone has forced your child to drink their own urine? WTF.
 
Who the cluck does this guy think he is though smacking your own children. Maybe you should lay him out and **** down his throat. Absolute coward and sicko.
 
Dimple said:
No they're not, they'd be looking all over the place and fidgeting.
I'm not even going to debate this because it's ludicrous to suggest otherwise.
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I know what you meant. They're good at telling lies, but not good at lying. :)
 
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