Child forced to drink own urine

THIS POST IS 100% CRAP

Rubbish, don't believe the OP for a second. If there was anything about this OP then he would have phoned the police/social services/(name another Jeremy Kyle organisation here).

He didn't, he posted on a forum instead.
 
That's shocking. Tell the police! Stop ****ing about!

Smacking: "discipline" sounds like an excuse for not being able to educate properly. The only time I could ever see myself smacking a child is if they needed perspective such as if the hit another or wanted to walk out on to the road and as a result possibly get ran over. I got properly battered with my speak and spell for breaking my speak and spell when I was about 7ish in the name of "discipline". I had taken issue to this later in life and it doesn't look nice looking back on it. I'm sure a lot of people are pretty aware of their children's environment anyway.
 
Richand said:
Which will still make the abuse stop "what if he tells daddy again?"
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Which is nonsense, I have a friend who's child was abused and through threats of hurting 'his mummy' was sworn to secrecy and was only found out by being caught in the act of beating the child.

Personally I wouldn't have said anything and just gone straight to the police.
 
Colbaker said:
I disagree as I would because I am pro smacking, you disagree with me as you would because you are con smacking, this will go round and round in circles, ultimately neither of us should tell the other how to raise our children but obviously have the right to agree or disagree with each other.

My now 6 year old is very grounded, well behaved and is often commented on as a nice polite boy ( his teacher said he is the politest boy she has ever met), I doubt he even remembers me smacking him but at the time took his attention away from what he was doing, as said it was not to hurt or even mark him but he understood that what he was doing was very naughty ( I had tried other routes first).

As said we will never agree
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Smacking may also work, but you could achieve the same without violence directed at children with a much lower chance of having long term side effects in later life (For one you are teaching a child that violence is a tool to be used).

If both methods work, why not pick the one which doesn't involve hitting children?.
 
I would have put this guy is hospital my self, but if you can't do it your self as you will get your own arse kicked, pay someone bigger than him to do it.
 
This will all come to naught. Absolutely nothing is provable. And the child was most likely embellishing the truth for effect. When questioned, the story will change, inconsistencies will appear and it will all fall apart. Like so many of these cases that involve children.
 
elmarko1234 said:
Smacking may also work, but you could achieve the same without violence directed at children with a much lower chance of having long term side effects in later life (For one you are teaching a child that violence is a tool to be used).

If both methods work, why not pick the one which doesn't involve hitting children?.
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The use of the word violence is interesting, A smack is considered violent, How about man handling the child to remove them from said situation? is that not also violence?

Also, you try the none smacking method first then when that does not work you try the smacking method in my opinion, as said before i have only felt the need to smack 1 of my children and that was twice in their life, both times all other avenue's had been exhasuted and he was not getting how serious a situation he was getting himself in, So i used a smack to teach him, it did and as far as i am concerned it meant he was now safe as you know you cannot watch your children at all times.

I think this will go on and on as pro smackers and con smackers will never change eachothers views.

OP, did you contact anyone this morning?
 
FoxEye said:
hmm. you're the same guy who kept calling people "rape apologists" in the other thread, aren't you... I'm guessing this is another issue where you're going to try to demonise the other side.
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Was I? :confused: Sounds like an interesting thread, but I don't remember it.
 
Can't understand why he would wait a day to contact police etc? I would be onto them straight away, not come on here
 
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Richand said:
Hey guys,

If you saw the title in a headline of a paper you would be shocked right?

well, my child who is 6 years old told me tonight that his uncle who lives with his mother did this to him after he wet his bed.

apparently they wrung the sheets and his PJ trousers into a cup and forced him to drink it as punishment for wetting the bed.

obviously I'm fuming and full of anger, this man hates my guts, has done for a very long time which tbh, I couldn't give a crap about his threats towards me, much bigger guy than me and is a downright bully.

he also smacks my children for reasons the children don't know, they are honest kids and would admit to wrong doing, I have never laid a finger on them, they are clever enough to be reasoned with.

in the morning I will be getting my son to admit this story in front of his teacher and will be going to the social services, I believe its criminal but we shall see....

anyway, just wanted some venting space and being a long time lurker/poster on here I feel its a place which will offer support and advice in a real world no-nonsense way, unlike mumsnet! lol
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You don't need to embarrass your son further by forcing him to admit it in front of a teacher, ring social services first, they're more trained to deal with it.

The irrational parent in me however has thought of at least 50 things you should do to end his uncles life in the most torturous and painful way but it'll not do you any good as you don't need to spend time inside when your son needs you.
 
Richand said:
Hey guys,

If you saw the title in a headline of a paper you would be shocked right?

well, my child who is 6 years old told me tonight that his uncle who lives with his mother did this to him after he wet his bed.

apparently they wrung the sheets and his PJ trousers into a cup and forced him to drink it as punishment for wetting the bed.

obviously I'm fuming and full of anger, this man hates my guts, has done for a very long time which tbh, I couldn't give a crap about his threats towards me, much bigger guy than me and is a downright bully.

he also smacks my children for reasons the children don't know, they are honest kids and would admit to wrong doing, I have never laid a finger on them, they are clever enough to be reasoned with.

in the morning I will be getting my son to admit this story in front of his teacher and will be going to the social services, I believe its criminal but we shall see....

anyway, just wanted some venting space and being a long time lurker/poster on here I feel its a place which will offer support and advice in a real world no-nonsense way, unlike mumsnet! lol
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surely enough to take the child and look after him yourself. that guy needs a good kicking. i cant stand people like that. what a big man to push a little kid around.
 
Richand said:
right update,

firstly, like I said in the OP, I'm venting and knew some of you would respond as you have but I believe my approach will stop the abuse.

another independent professional witness to my son saying what has happened before his custodial parent gets hold of him to sway his thoughts, remember this is the uncle so access to the mother wouldn't be withheld by the police, social services will be referred to by both me and the school, that is a real force and not just a parent without care banding about acquisitions.

I text the mother the following (she wouldn't answer the phone and text is written proof but allows her to build a story):

"Did you know **** made **** drink his own urine!, I'm going to the police first thing tomorrow as its disgusting and ****ing abuse on a massive scale!"

her reply:

It was ****ing orange juice and ginger beer mixed together! like I would let him do that. it was to scare him to stop weeing the bed!!

and that makes mental abuse of a child believe he is drinking wee ok?! idiot!
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you have proof now of how bad a mother she is. i would fight tooth and nail for custody. she doesnt deserve to have kids.
 
What implications would there be for the kids having a "away from school day" or you picking them up from school rather than letting your ex/uncle pick them up?

That would be my course of action but I'd be checking the implications/legalities and the agreement you have with your ex.

You realy need to get in touch with either the police or SS with your concerns that the children are not safe there and see what they say.

Hope you get it sorted OP :)

EDIT: Had missed the update above
 
right, as I said in the OP, I wanted to vent on here but seeing as the response has been pretty big I will give you guys an update.

I rang the social services last night, they will do a report today, there is more abuse than the urine issue, which may seem petty when explained but if you saw the video evidence then your opinion would change, I wont post it as it features my children and ex.

I went to the school and spoke to my son's favourite teacher who he thinks is amazing, I didn't get my son to talk to him as that would further his embarrassment, the school have a safe guarding team (basically all the teachers) which works with the social services.

they are going to have a meeting with my ex about the matter, they where disgusted as the children are both amazing kids and the teacher in questions favourite child.

to all the "batter him" people, I take it you don't have children, what good will me being seen as a violent man do for my children? nothing.
 
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Get you children into a safe environment first. Then deal with the uncle sometime in the not too distant future.
 
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