Child forced to drink own urine

Oh completely, this is nothing in the grand scheme of things when it comes to case conferences to have children taken away.

Unless there is an immediate and serious threat of harm to a child, taking custody is difficult, at least for the Police. When it comes to social services, I don't know how it works, and I'm not sure they do either.
 
This makes me so angry.

Why?
Depending on the severity of the abuse / neglect it can actually be worse for all concerned to take the child away.
Unless, as Burnsy points out, there is an immediate and serious threat then it can be a LOT worse than in this thread.

Unless there is an immediate and serious threat of harm to a child, taking custody is difficult, at least for the Police. When it comes to social services, I don't know how it works, and I'm not sure they do either.

I think the SS can sweep on in and take the child off to temporary accomodation should the need be high enough. Otherwise its a lot of case conferences and many people involved trying to help the parents keep the kid(s) where possible.
 
I'd lamp him on the quiet when he's on his own and continue too until he stopped.

You go to jail and the kid ends up with a ruined future.

Easy to say and do things like these, but it plays no advantage to the kid. Don't get me wrong, I'd want to kill him and would have to not drink for a long time.
 
Then I'd send someone else round he wouldn't have a choice, there's no way on earth anyone would do that to my kids and get away with it.


oooooooooo the red mist's building just thinking about it

Mine too, but you have to think logically about these things. Been in the position as a kid myself.
 
Ok, update!

For those of you a little slow, this just got a lot weirder!

about an hour or so ago I got a phone call from my ex, basically saying the following:

1, I am not to collect the children, my partner can collect them but I am not allowed near the house. this is fine with me.

2, She had spoken to the children and they told her that I ask what they do at home and if they don't tell me I punish them, this is utter ********, if you knew my parenting style, I don't punish them most of the time unless serious ridiculous behaviour as they do as they are told without punishment.

she followed this up with saying she had told the kids to not tell me anything that happens at home and if I or anyone asks they are to say "I dont know" this....THIS.. is abuse!

she then say our daughter would be good for me as shes daddy's little angel (she is) but for her she is a total bitch and acts like a bitch towards her and her brother.

what sort of women says this about her daughter?

I had listened to enough at this point and told her she is a mental abuser and she has abused them twice in the last 5 minutes, she hit the wall at this and yes.....no access for me, she doesn't see it as abuse.

the boyfriend was in the background shouting "i'm going to knock you the **** out, who do you think you are calling us abusers" in response I just replied "the children's dad" at this point she hung up.

rang social services, nobody has still looked at the case, they will ring me asap....2 weeks then!

rang the police, they will call me back.

life is grand, I am feeling like going around and just taking them and dealing with whatever violent **** they try as at least then the police may actually do something about these vile humans.
 
she then say our daughter would be good for me as shes daddy's little angel (she is) but for her she is a total bitch and acts like a bitch towards her and her brother.

what sort of women says this about her daughter?

the kind you apparently impregnated ;)
 
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