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why not? are your friends incapable of moving on from past relationships ? do they stay single hoping one day this ex will want to get back together ?

seems to be a low 20's and under thing its wrong.
people almost 30 and over are emotionally mature enough to be able to handle it.

I think that if you value your friendship with someone, especially when it's a ex-partner of many years, that you would have to decency to speak to them first as it could adversely affect them. Would it be different if they had been together 20 years? And been friends for longer?

Also this guy sounds like a tool, so it doesn't surprise me that he has no respect for this friend.
 
I cant believe that I commented on this thread and just got back! If I hadn't of posted I fully believe I would have been a "bad friend" tonight! just wasnt worth it and glad I didnt!
 
First of I'd like to apologise for grave digging threads but...

lol :P, that's not going to happen, after last night and a few spilled secrets, it seems my "mate" was anything but "reliable" and did not know... as you put it.."how to smash her right". ;)

Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having. :D

Also, I'd just like to mention that it was solid for six years (we were also engaged and I'm not one to leap into that for the hell of it) before it started going pear-shaped due to me suffering from depression and was unwilling to sort things out.
Just an update for you all saying as it now seems you know most of what's going on in my life so far:

They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister. It's all going great and everything's been hunky dory. So I thought that I'd come on here, get back into the whole overclocking and modding scene again as my computer's potential is not being used (I'll post about that elsewhere). Then I see this thread and at first, I thought "well at least he was a bit concerned" but as I delved deeper I realised I was just getting beasted for the sake of winning you all over. I have never cheated on her and I don't know what these shocking things I have done on nights out are.

so some of this...

Yeah, the guy was so crap that they lasted 6 years. She's buttering you up, and if you're at the point where you are already talking behind your "mates" back about his sexual performances, then I predict a bit of trouble in the future. To be honest, it makes you both sound like prats.


isn't far wrong at all.

A tad upsetting to say the least, you know a guy for about 18 years, then a girl who you've known for 8 comes along (he's known her for about 4 or 5) and bam, it all goes to ****.

Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.

Again, I know this is an old thread now but just thought I'd let you all know the other side of things and not listen to all the bashing that was brought it to bring you on to the side of "aye go on then".

See you 'round the forum.
 
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First of I'd like to apologise for grave digging threads but...



Your sister is more than happy enough with the smashings that she's having. :D

Also, I'd just like to mention that it was solid for six years (we were also engaged and I'm not one to leap into that for the hell of it) before it started going pear-shaped due to me suffering from depression and was unwilling to sort things out.
Just an update for you all saying as it now seems you know most of what's going on in my life so far:

They're now together and to be honest it helped me move on rather rapidly, to David's sister. It's all going great and everything's been hunky dory. So I thought that I'd come on here, get back into the whole overclocking and modding scene again as my computer's potential is not being used (I'll post about that elsewhere). Then I see this thread and at first, I thought "well at least he was a bit concerned" but as I delved deeper I realised I was just getting beasted for the sake of winning you all over.

so some of this...




isn't far wrong at all.

A tad upsetting to say the least, you know a guy for about 18 years, then a girl who you've known for 8 comes along (he's known her for about 4 or 5) and bam, it all goes to ****.

Just remember, kids. Don't go putting your mates down severely on a public forum that they know you frequent and are very likely to visit.

Again, I know this is an old thread now but just thought I'd let you all know the other side of things and not listen to all the bashing that was brought it to bring you on to the side of "aye go on then".

See you 'round the forum.

This is amazing :eek:
 
All this Thread needs now is some of the pics you promised your ex you'd never show anyone and the OP is pwned!! :D
 
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