You can get the revised front end with a 1.9 100 but not a 130+ as far as im aware - the 2 litre diesel isn't worth it, far better with the pre revised shape and a 130.
For the op I still think the accord would be a good buy - will fond one without a dpf but just new enough to avoid the initial issies they had. Nice comfortable cruiser too, or the 2.2 ford in a close to end of production year where the injectors were far less of an issue, look for one with a recently dmf/clutch and it should be a reasonable buy