Has the internet ruined buying things for you?

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This might be a strange concept, and in general i know the answer will be no, but bare with me i have a point.

Also yes i accept the many hundreds of positive aspects of the internet for purchases, such as researching, reviews etc.

However this is my point:

With the internet, i feel compelled to make the perfect buying choice, on every single item, every single time.
Which is a lot of hassle, i recently realised i was spending hours over looking for a perfect beard trimmer, a time i could have just bought something, realised i hated it and bought something else in. (If you equate time to money i'd come out on top).

But lets look at a bigger scale, a TV for example, thats a big purchase.
You don't want to buy a £100-500+ object and realise it's not the right one for you, or you could have gotten a better deal elsewhere, or there is a better from a different make.
But when you finally buy that TV, are you happy? for me there's not the fun of a purchase that i used to have when i was younger (only 20 now...).
Personally i always see some review online about x or y wrong with my product, or then see a better product, or someone suddenly says something better is out in 3 months (ignore PC parts here for obvious reasons, also this is a pc forum... i like researching those parts :D), and it just kills it for me.

To put it into context, i've seen family members go and buy a TV in the past, nothing amazing, but not cheap. They brought it home and raved to everyone about how great it was, top of the range, has this has that. They were overjoyed. And i knew it wasn't close to being the best it could be for their money. I knew i wouldn't buy that tv when you could buy other tvs for a better price, with better features.
However me with my stupid search for the best, wouldn't be as happy as the ignorant buyer who got a shiny new toy that functions just as good any other tv.

Now this might be because when i was younger i spent quickly and regretted it, not really wasting cash but i never had much so it felt bad.

But it's just been something i've been thinking about, does anyone have similar thoughts? maybe i should make a few more impulse purchases.
 
If you're Rainman then the internet will make your purchasing decisions deliciously masturbatory. Then once you own the thing the internet will ruin your life because you could have saved 2 pounds and got a slightly newer model if you'd imported it from Germany but then exchange rates and
 
You mean to say ignorance is bliss?

Long and short of it :D


I impulse buy all the time, internet makes it even easier :p

Starting to think this might be an idea, i'm turning 21, just got a promotion and pay rise, no debts. Live at home with barely any bills, i shouldn't worry about spending and not getting the best, or spending and not saving a few quid here and there, it's just so ingrained into my head.
Maybe i'll have a bar for with purchases under will be a quick, compare models / specs briefly online. For example with the beard trimmer, as long as it clips my beard that's all i need right? If it dies in 6 months i've not lost out on much more than £30 in the worst case. (Yeeeeessssssss proper professional clippers / good makes / whatever will be far more expensive, my point being if a cheap and cheerful does the job, why pay more?)
 
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look at shopping internet IS shopping

look at how many big companies haven't embraced it quick enough and gone bang recently !
 
I'm never happy buying a large purchase unless im pretty much certain its at the best price it has been and will be for a while (or as close as!), then can i get satisfaction from my purchase! :o

I'm kinda envious of friends/family simply walking into a shop and picking up what they need without a 2nd thought!

The internet has really turned me into a thrift!
 
However me with my stupid search for the best, wouldn't be as happy as the ignorant buyer who got a shiny new toy that functions just as good any other tv.
Personally, I don't particularly like being bent over and having my undies yanked down to my ankles. Stores exist to sell 'stuff' to you and make a profit. I enjoy the bargain hunt, getting a cheap deal.
 
I work on the basis that if I spend a day researching the cheapest price on line it would have to save me a days wage to make it worth while. I work freelance though so that is a bit more of a useful metric for me. What I never do is go back after I have bought and see if there is a cheaper one now.
 
look at shopping internet IS shopping

look at how many big companies haven't embraced it quick enough and gone bang recently !


I'm sure i've misunderstood you, but in case i haven't:

I don't have a single problem with shopping online, oh god no i love it.

*click click* item will arrive in a few days, oh god yes... so good... I can't stand actual shopping in the.... outside world... *shiver*.

No my problem is just the internet as a whole in relation to shopping.
But at the same time it's not even that, it's just my own problem and im wondering if anyone else has similar feelings. The things i'm complaining about here are all really positive things, and objectively my post makes no sense. Being able to compare items, read reviews, and research online, all FANTASTIC. I'll admit that 100 times out of 100. It's just it means i'm never happy, having all that information available.
 
The actual process of shopping no, I do a bit of both local and online.

The process of *choosing* can be way harder than it needs to be and it's dead easy to read so much about every single product ever that you could pretty much put yourself off buying anything if you read too much, so I try and not do it.

Still do it though.
 
I impulse buy all the time, internet makes it even easier :p

This. It's way too easy to just clicky and buy! I despise searching in public, certainly for big purchases...can't deal with people. Online you can get some nice and honest advice from the lovely guys at places like this forum and happily buy a product.
 
To put it into context, i've seen family members go and buy a TV in the past, nothing amazing, but not cheap. They brought it home and raved to everyone about how great it was, top of the range, has this has that. They were overjoyed. And i knew it wasn't close to being the best it could be for their money. I knew i wouldn't buy that tv when you could buy other tvs for a better price, with better features.
However me with my stupid search for the best, wouldn't be as happy as the ignorant buyer who got a shiny new toy that functions just as good any other tv.

I think you're being naive. I know many people that buy something new, rave about how it's amazing, the best on the market; 2 months later he's sold it claiming it to be inferior and upgraded to, yup, an amazing product that's the best on the market. Rinse and repeat.

Purchases shouldn't be fun, the products you buy should be the thing that satisfies you. I think you'll find some people find pleasure in the actual purchase of an item (hence so many people in CC debt), I would suggest these people are either rich or are happy go lucky. From what it sounds like, you've grown up and found a respect for money and its value (probably from having to work for it) and you're not so eager to throw it about.

I spend a my time researching and price hunting for my items. I find it gives me a lot of satisfaction. When I look at my items I know that it's a great bit of kit and was good value for money, I have no doubt in my mind that this is true.

I could be a jew.
 
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The internet makes researching products easier, sure but it's not because of the internet that you've become obsessed with researching products before you buy, it simply facilitates your obsession with it.

If you're a jew, you're a jew and internet or not, you'll want to get the most value out of your money. I know I'm a jew when it comes to stuff like that.

For the most part, I Don't really spend "that" much time doing research, I generally will have a list of requirements and buy something for as little as I can that will match those requirements.
 
I can go a bit nuts buying stuff online. Especially stuff like clothes, but even big purchases. With clothes i don't buy often and i am not exactly the best clothes shopper but online all you can see is some crappy image and i can spend a while looking at all these images and in the end i just don;t buy anything cause I realy don't know wtf.

With big purchases i end up watching youtube unboxings and dumbass reviews over and over. But if i buy something i make sure i am going to be happy with it. But i have accepted a long time ago that i will never have the best stuff. Like i bought a yamaha av receiver for £250 for that price 6 months or 1 year later i could get one with network port and loads of other features. But who cares it does the job that i paid for and when it breaks in 5 years time i can get another one.
 
IIll often pay more for an item to get it from somewhere i like. (within reason)

I do a lot more reaserch before buying things but it doesnt stop me doing the odd impulse buy. One thing it has stopped me doing tho is going to the highstreet for a lot of things making highstreets slowly become a thing of the past.
 
The only thing I don't like about online shopping is that you don't get to see/use the item on display first. You have to trawl through images and videos to see what it's like, but even then it isn't the same as actually having the item there with you.
 
The only thing I don't like about online shopping is that you don't get to see/use the item on display first. You have to trawl through images and videos to see what it's like, but even then it isn't the same as actually having the item there with you.

That is the point of the DSR.

Which is one of the best part of online shopping, you have more rights in this regard in terms of returns than you do buying in store.
 
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