Mrs just left me..

Dont contact her in anyway. Dont talk to her friends if possible. Basically cut her out your life. Go out and be a 22yr old and try to forget about her. She will likely come back if she see you carrying on and then you can decide wethr you want her
 
Get rid.

I had this with my ex where I had 2 years of uni where I toned it down to be with her, she started uni... Oh I need to spread my wings yadda yadda. If she's so self centred as to pull this stunt it's not worth hanging in there, I tried for a bit before realising and getting rid.

You'll move on, find better and be happier, I know I did and I'm sure you will too :)

Chin up OP, plenty more pasties to smash! :D
 
You must make your own decision.

However my advice is to leave her and then just pick up random ****s every once in a while from bars and clubs on the weekends and only ever have one night stands.
 
ChocolateStarfishRammer said:
Not even the decency to repay me basically funding her through Uni
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hope this comes across as just some friendly straight to the point advice based only on this tiny one post, but you were imo too quick to bring this up, might be part of the reason she has left. your partner of 3 years leaves you and the second sentence you bring up how you funded her and she owes you proper good bye etc. comes across as selfish and not dealing with the issue. i'd most certainly try to avoid mentioning this ever if you talk to her
 
chalk it up as a silly mistake and move on

don't move in with the next one and don't fund their living expenses - you're 22 and she is 20.... most girls at that age won't be in a long term relationship with the person they currently call their boyfriend. Go out and have fun... don't get tied down in a serious relationship at 22... you might feel bad about it now but this could well have saved you from making a horrible mistake with your life....
 
Put her under this.

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Its difficult to take in when its you that's being left, but where I in your position, I'd go out tomorrow and **** everything in sight.

Cause that's what she will doing, or more likely has been doing.
 
"Space" just means she has met someone else and is testing the waters to see if its better while keeping you on standby.

I've seen it a lot in my life where women stay with a man that's paying for their uni and its all over shortly afterwards. Whores ;)
 
Thanks for all the replies guys..

And to answer the biggest ones..

No, I don't believe she's out with anyone else or would even jump straight into bed with another bloke.. (thats what they all think I here you say).. but, I just know shes not that type of bird. Yourll have to take my word for that.

Yes, Ive basically funded her through uni.. Long story: I didnt have much of a choice but to move out on my own 2 years ago.. we were both happy and sensible and decided it would be a good idea to do it together. The most she could and still can afford to give in contribution to me is £300pm. I pay for everything else via full time job. I was happy doing it and still am. It was a long term thought as after her 3 year course we'll be better off so doing this for the short term really isnt any issue.
 
Smash some other pasty, might take a lot of getting used to (given age and length of time together) but life isn't all about being in a relationship that will go on forever.
 
Robbie G said:
What 22 yo funds a chick through uni?! You've been played brah. Move along.
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As above. Lad I know got similar treatment not too long back. Hooked up with the class hottie who didn't have a clue, helped her through the whole course far more than anyone should, low and behold 'problems' started developing around graduation, it didn't last much longer than that.

You've been had mate. Chalk it up. Go enjoy your youth.
 
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