Mrs just left me..

Smigly said:
I hadn't seen her in a while but I saw her a few weeks back when I was at work and it was really awkward. Couldn't believe how we went from practically living at each others houses, doing everything together and almost like sisters, to not even talking to each other when we are face to face just because of him.
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Are they still together? I'm waiting for the day of realisation to dawn on her...

XiS111 said:
I'm still shaking from being afraid of cutting all ties :| I probably would mentally break down if she came back to me.
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Forget her. Time is the greatest healer - cliche but so true!

Think about yourself and what you want to do...be selfish for a while :)

BB x
 
BrightonBelle said:
Forget her. Time is the greatest healer - cliche but so true!

Think about yourself and what you want to do...be selfish for a while :)

BB x
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Been doing so for a while ever since 20th dec, day we broke up.
Hanging out with some friends pre-gf. Hitting the gym as highly recommended here and yeah just drinking a lot haha.
 
XiS111 said:
I'm still shaking from being afraid of cutting all ties :| I probably would mentally break down if she came back to me.
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I split with my girlfriend of five years a couple of weeks ago, we'd lived together for three of those, and after totally cutting contact the minute that she'd moved her stuff out I can't stress enough how much of a help it's been. Block her on Facebook, block her close mates on Facebook who you know are going to be posting content involving her, block her on Twitter, block her on anything that you think you could possibly get an unwanted reminder of the fact she even exists.

It's hard to not contact them, but it really is the only way you're actually going to get over them and move on. If you stay in regular contact, you're not giving yourself the distance you need between the two of you to break any emotional ties you've got.

Life goes on. That's the fact at the end of it all, regardless of what you're thinking now. It's just going to go on without them being a part of it.

Like I said, it's been a couple of weeks and much worse things have happened in my life since then, but i'm feeling better for it all.
 
JonnyGLC said:
It's hard to not contact them, but it really is the only way you're actually going to get over them and move on. If you stay in regular contact, you're not giving yourself the distance you need between the two of you to break any emotional ties you've got.
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This is so true. I think one of the things you miss is the 'habit' of texting someone... usually about random stuff that your friends would think you were bonkers to text them about.

If you can, find a mate who you text or bro or sis or spare phone lol :p if its a problem and you need to get it out of your system!

BB x
 
Have read this thread from beginning to end and its been a great help for me in realising what I have been doing myself and what I need to do so thanks for everyone posting :)
 
[FnG]magnolia;23600640 said:
Requesting update from OP.
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Yes Dad. :)

So, She's moved back in.

Currently, things are great. Both of us had it out and shouted the roof off and since then and were both working on things we've become lazy with in the relationship and its going good.

Im obviously very aware that this could still all go to pot and both fall back into the same rhythms as before, as so is she, so were both trying.

Oh, And to answer some on here.. Im 100% sure she was not having her pasty smashed by any french men.
 
ChocolateStarfishRammer said:
Yes Dad. :)

So, She's moved back in.

Currently, things are great. Both of us had it out and shouted the roof off and since then and were both working on things we've become lazy with in the relationship and its going good.

Im obviously very aware that this could still all go to pot and both fall back into the same rhythms as before, as so is she, so were both trying.

Oh, And to answer some on here.. Im 100% sure she was not having her pasty smashed by any french men.
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Good work and good luck. Just make sure there is always an open communication path between the 2 of you :)
 
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