Or are there some that have been largely unemployed, also have most people stayed in their home town/city, I am just trying to gauge as when we left school we were of the attitude that you just go out and get on with it and find your own way, not in a nasty way but looking back that's how it seemed. I could have happily stayed at home with my folks, but wanted to get away after school and uni was only real option hence to the city and it must have been like being out there taking on the world by yourself, I sometimes wondered how I have managed so far which I probably haven't very well. Basically if you don't have support, friends and family and are in an unfamiliar place and are very used to home comforts then it can be a struggle, how did/do you get on?