I'd be lost without my partner...

[[FnG]magnolia]

Have you found yourself in a surprisingly adult relationship?

You haven't describe an adult relationship, you've described a puppy missing its master, waiting for the moment he will come back and say, "Good boy! Aren't you a good boy!"

 

[doofer]

She's obviously gone away and taken your testicles with her.

 

[Chris-.-]

Where's Mohammad when you need him.

 

[pooley]

If you are feeling like that you are doing it wrong...

 

[Gixer]

Everyone reacts differently when away from their partner. I'm in a long distance relationship (8000 miles long). We spend between 8-9 months a year apart at the moment. Doing the last year of this at the moment. It has been like this the last two years. Must say it's been a massive rollercoaster emotionally. We are holding it together just about.

This year I'm making much more of a concious effort to be a little more social. I always keep myself busy but mostly with work / going to the gym and by the time I do those things it doesn't leave long for house chores etc. The long distance thing does take its toll though, sometimes I just feel what feels like totally emotionally numb.

Only 13 more weeks or so left until I fly out to see her now

 

[twist3d0n3]

Enjoy your freedom, time without the missus is golden

 

[atpbx]

My wife and I have anything but an adult relationship.

 

[chaparral]

...she's gone away for the week and I suddenly realise that I've got nothing to do.

You never notice how special they are to you till there gone.....


Your lucky yours is only gone for a week....

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

You don't Realize what you got till it gone.....

I think he does. He's realised that he's an empty husk entirely reliant on his other half to give his life any meaning.

 

[Hellsmk2]

Hand in your man card you giant pussy!

 

[lakitu]

Hand in your man card you giant pussy!

 

[gillywibble]

I feel you OP.

 

[Skully]

I miss having my dinner made for me but other than that it's nice to have some alone time.

 

[Illusion]

You are setting yourself up for a massive fall thinking in this way. Be yourself and spend time with mates even when the missis is there. If you did ever split up you'd be ruined with your current state of mind? Don't pretend to yourself that it would never happen either as it can and will. It wouldn't surprise me if it got to a point where she ended it because "you are too reliant and have no life of your own".

Oh and yeah, man up. I'm now single but previously was in a 4 year relationship and I practically prayed the gf would be working at weekends so I could go night fishing or drinking without getting whinged at..

 

[teenwolf]

Oh and yeah, man up. I'm now single but previously was in a 4 year relationship and I practically prayed the gf would be working at weekends so I could go night fishing or drinking without getting whinged at..

this

 

[Devrij]

My gf went away for a week the other month (longest we'd been apart in years) and the first night by myself felt a bit weird, but it was great to have the time to myself. All of a sudden there was no need to compromise. Just do whatever I want! Want to go for a drive and shoot a sunset on the moors? Let's go! no one wanting to leave early because they had to pee or eat.

No, I really enjoy it when she goes away lol. Don't get me wrong, after a week I was happy to see her back and do our little routines, but I certainly wasn't lost without her. I just ate a lot of pizza

 

[RoboCod]

LOSER

 

[alexthecheese]

I thought you were gonna say she won't let you know borrow the satnav.

p.s. you make me want to vomit.

 

[jfp]

I don't think I could give up something I love just for a relationship... Surely if they are right for you they would just accept you for who you are and what you do?

 

[Voltar]

Want to go for a drive and shoot a sunset on the moors? Let's go! no one wanting to leave early because they had to pee or eat.

Make her pee on the moor then...