The "Honeymoon Period"

Oh this will go on for years to come to you realize that all women are crazy I've just turned 30 and can honestly say i understand now (women crazy part) you always get told it but till you get through 3-4 2 year + relationships you never really really know as they hide it very well till late on!.


Youll get on great though if your a push over but if you stand on your own two feet and have free will your screwed!
 
I bet the honeymoon period also extended to the bedroom as well... come on to her all the time and when she doesn't want to put out a lot complain that she used to do it and has changed,
 
Matutu said:
No not her first relationship. The thing seems to be she is always constantly giving compliments and saying really nice things, but it now seems she is only saying these things as she is expecting them so she is like constantly fishing for compliments and I always bite.

Now this is the problem as I think I have said lots of nice things but she had fished for them all! So I don't ever think about just saying random things.......

Just an example if we see each other Sunday all day and Monday we don't due to gym, by 12pm Monday ill already get texts saying I miss you and can't wait to see you etc etc

Sorry but it's only 12hours lol so I don't even think about saying it. Is that me on the wrong?
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She's mental and really really insecure. Last gf ended up like this, all of her life was focused on me (despite being long distance) then she got like that, fishing constantly and complaining that I didn't compliment her over the phone (she got fat and I couldn't see her putting effort into loosing the pounds so how was I supposed to compliment).

It'll end in tiers if you don't nip it in the bud and tell her to stop being mental (it's not normal to text each other constantly about missing each other after 12 hours and so on).
 
leon4112 said:
Oh this will go on for years to come to you realize that all women are crazy I've just turned 30 and can honestly say i understand now (women crazy part) you always get told it but till you get through 3-4 2 year + relationships you never really really know as they hide it very well till late on!.


Youll get on great though if your a push over but if you stand on your own two feet and have free will your screwed!
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this!

although i realised mine is crazy pretty early on :p
 
elmarko said:
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Hahaha :)
 
twist3d0n3 said:
this!

although i realised mine is crazy pretty early on :p
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It's hard when some of them are really attractive girls but always ends up the same way they lose the plot and your packing your bags...

They say oh the key to happiness doing everything 50 - 50 tried that ends up being 80-20 if your lucky.
 
leon4112 said:
You may laugh but my recent ex after a year and a half had that exact dream that i cheated on her and didn't forgive me (WTF!!) for nearly a week and she was 25 a manager of a hospital r&d dept so no stupid girl!

THEY ARE ALL CRAZY!!! :D:D:D
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Speak for yourself bro, mine's AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
So what's the problem exactly?

You don't feel the same as she does? You're scared at how serious it's getting? You want more space?
 
Voltar said:
So what's the problem exactly?

You don't feel the same as she does? You're scared at how serious it's getting? You want more space?
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She is upset that I do not say more nice things spontaneously...... As I have to say nice things all day! in response to her fishing lol.

Also I personally dont find the need to say I miss someone within 10hours of seeing them :S.

No way am I scared of getting serious I am glad it has been getting more serious. Just I have never asked for anything from her but she has started to ask more and more from me in terms of how I should speak/act and be.
 
Matutu said:
She is upset that I do not say more nice things spontaneously...... As I have to say nice things all day! in response to her fishing lol.

Also I personally dont find the need to say I miss someone within 10hours of seeing them :S.

No way am I scared of getting serious I am glad it has been getting more serious. Just I have never asked for anything from her but she has started to ask more and more from me in terms of how I should speak/act and be.
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If you give people compliments when they fish for them, from experience - they never stop doing it.

You have to be pretty firm or be willing to hand them out constantly like candy (with no real meaning behind it).

I've been where you are now, you hear a comment which is intended to make you say "Oh no, you are wonderful darling" - but inside you feel pressured into saying it & don't like playing this stupid game & secretly wish they simply had some self confidence & didn't require constant reassurances.

Ammirite?.
 
Matutu said:
Now this is the problem as I think I have said lots of nice things but she had fished for them all! So I don't ever think about just saying random things.......
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I've had that. Hot girl telling me she looks ugly etc? I got bored of it so I started agreeing with her. She is now my ex, so that might not be the best course of action. :P

leon4412 said:
You may laugh but my recent ex after a year and a half had that exact dream that i cheated on her and didn't forgive me (WTF!!) for nearly a week and she was 25 a manager of a hospital r&d dept so no stupid girl!

THEY ARE ALL CRAZY!!!
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Thats one of those funny because it's true things. The might not outright blame you for it but they'll be funny with you for at least a week usually. I've woke up to being slapped before.


Voltar said:
So what's the problem exactly?

You don't feel the same as she does? You're scared at how serious it's getting? You want more space?
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Pretty sure he wants her to shut up. I'd suggest telling her to shut up but that doesn't go that well in my experience either.
 
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