Soldato
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- 3 Jun 2005
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Sorry I have to vent.
This week I have had to take 2 people to day surgery for operations, my neighbour and my step father.
My neighbour was yesterday and they asked her to go in at 10.30 in the morning. They gave no indication of time she might come out so I asked if there was any approximation. I was told it would take 'a while', I politely asked if it is likely to be more than 3 hours as the distance I have to travel would only make it worth going home if it was longer than that.
The nurse suddenly glared at me and told me abruptly 'I said awhile, ok!!'. Obviously it left me none the wiser. All in all I spent up till 6pm sitting in my car and hanging around shops etc. I got a text from my neighbour saying they were getting shirty with her as she had been ready for 30mins, yet nobody called me. When I got there to pick her up there was a whole mob of people trying to collect people, nobody had been called as promised.
Today I dropped my step father off at 11:30 different hospital. As it is an hour and a half drive I just called them. After 15 minutes on hold I get another shirty nurse saying he has not been taken for surgery and I should not phone back as it will take as long as it takes and he can call me when he is ready from his mobile.
That means he will have to wait an extra hour and a half for me to get there once he has been discharged. Neither hospitals allow you to wait with them so thats no an option and the parking is like £2 an hour now.
I know they are busy but I just cannot stand the rudeness, not that I would but if you said anything to them they fall back on the NHS abuse policy.
So fed up with it all.
This week I have had to take 2 people to day surgery for operations, my neighbour and my step father.
My neighbour was yesterday and they asked her to go in at 10.30 in the morning. They gave no indication of time she might come out so I asked if there was any approximation. I was told it would take 'a while', I politely asked if it is likely to be more than 3 hours as the distance I have to travel would only make it worth going home if it was longer than that.
The nurse suddenly glared at me and told me abruptly 'I said awhile, ok!!'. Obviously it left me none the wiser. All in all I spent up till 6pm sitting in my car and hanging around shops etc. I got a text from my neighbour saying they were getting shirty with her as she had been ready for 30mins, yet nobody called me. When I got there to pick her up there was a whole mob of people trying to collect people, nobody had been called as promised.
Today I dropped my step father off at 11:30 different hospital. As it is an hour and a half drive I just called them. After 15 minutes on hold I get another shirty nurse saying he has not been taken for surgery and I should not phone back as it will take as long as it takes and he can call me when he is ready from his mobile.
That means he will have to wait an extra hour and a half for me to get there once he has been discharged. Neither hospitals allow you to wait with them so thats no an option and the parking is like £2 an hour now.
I know they are busy but I just cannot stand the rudeness, not that I would but if you said anything to them they fall back on the NHS abuse policy.
So fed up with it all.