Not necessarily, if a life form lasts 1m years it might have a period of 100k years where it is advanced/similar to us enough for us to detect it meaningfully. We've only been recognisable as "Humans "as we know it for a few 10s of thousands of years and able to use technology in a way that we could communicate/detect life off planet for maybe 100 years.
On the scale of the size of the entire universe, and the scale of billions of years of time from the start to the end(?) of the universe the likelihood of two sets of life being in similar enough stages of evolution and technology coinciding over the same few thousand (let alone hundreds) of years out of hundreds of billions at the same time in the same region of space make for a pretty slim chances.
Of course if you're looking for basic bacteria type life that could last unchanged for millions or billions of years without evolving in a way we would recognise the chances are better but as astounding as that would be intelligent life is really what we're after