Help with a girl...

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Ok, so, first things first, I ended it with my previous girlfriend on 17th May as I had enough of her crazy ****. Was with her nearly 3 years.

Righto, so, there is this girl I fancy the **** out of and I work with her. We get the bus together and sometimes on my day's off I will get it with her just for fun. She looks at me as more than a friend, she flirts, we constantly hug and mess about together, I've slept at her house. She has told me I'm the nicest guy she has ever met...1 problem...she is with my cousin (an item). I have been told by 7 other members of staff that the way she looks at me is NOT how a friend looks at another friend, they reckon it is something more...

I don't know what to do, she knows how much I want her, but she says we are just friends...thing is, she also said fat guys are cute and awesome, more cushion for the pushing... We've been out for drinks together and got ****** together...some folks at work think something is going on between us, and to be honest, I wish there was!!

What do I do? :(:confused:

EDIT: I would like to add, we have sooo much in common and we have both told each other things from our past that we wouldn't tell anyone else...I trust her with my life and vice versa...
 
She's with your Cousin. Don't steal someone elses Girlfriend.

If she wants to be with you she'd have left him.. and you seem to be moving on from your Ex awfully quickly.
 
She's with your Cousin. Don't steal someone elses Girlfriend.

If she wants to be with you she'd have left him.. and you seem to be moving on from your Ex awfully quickly.

I was moving on from her a few months ago, I just never had the bottle to properly end it...always got back together through guilt...
 
But what about your sweaty armpits? As said above dont steel someone elses girlfriend
 
Jaffa are you trying to make peoples perceptions of you on here even worse? There's plenty of fish in the ocean son, this isn't one of those films where you steal the chick from someone and everything goes plain sailing.
 
But what about your sweaty armpits? As said above dont steel someone elses girlfriend

She doesn't care about them :/ and I thoroughly respect the don't steal another mans woman...but...she says she doesn't know if she wants to be with him as last time they were together he made no effort...he gets back from Italy later today after being there working for 3 months...
 
I've just read an interesting on another forum about a bloke who reckons his cousin wants to steal his girlfriend.

There advice was that he should kidnap cousin and keep him locked in a cellar, then chop him into tiny parts and feed him to local foxes.











Be careful
 
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I'm going to go against the flow here and say go for it. Your cousin will get over it and you'll probably be together with the girl for the rest of your lives. :)

#yolo #swag
 
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I'm going to go against the flow here and say go for it. Your cousin will get over it and you'll probably be together with the girl for the rest of your lives. :)

#yolo #swag

You'd honestly screw a member of your own family over, for a girl? :confused:

Who's to say their relationship wouldn't improve and they'd be together for the rest of their lives? Either way, it's pretty low.

Find someone else. Keep her as a friend and maintain things with your cousin.
 
Ask her out for a romantic moonlit supper then invite her back to your mancave to show off your overclocked processor.
You'd honestly screw a member of your own family over, for a girl? :confused:

Who's to say their relationship wouldn't improve and they'd be together for the rest of their lives? Either way, it's pretty low.

Find someone else. Keep her as a friend and maintain things with your cousin.

I am not being rude, but I think you just missed out on some sarcasm.
 
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