Gay People Against Gay Marriage

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In this case, as there is already a system in place that give homosexual couples all the legal rights associated with marriage, and for all practical purposes imbues the same legal status as marriage then I would say that the ideal is Equal Marriage for all, as the practicalities are already in place.

The opportunity here was to legislate a bill that offered Equality...and they fluffed it, creating a inequality to replace a former one. Poor legislation should not be passed simply for political expediency.


so say it takes 2+ years to put through a combined bill and less than 2 years to put through two separate ones achieving the same thing? why choose the combined option?
 
I think I know what you're saying, maybe. However the laws are juggled, added/removed/whatever, the out come must be one of equality for all under the new legislation regardless of sexuality. If this is agreeable to you, then I think we are on the same page.

Yeah I suck at getting my point across. What i was trying to highlight is the fact that religious groups that are exempt from doing gay marriages is no different from them being exempt from giving a bed to anyone for whatever reason in my eyes.
 
Can you not see how constantly making the inference that gay is equal to bad could be upsetting if you were homosexual?

not really words can have different meanings in different contexts.

for instance "sick" means "awesome/very good" at times, and negative at others.

depending on context the sentence "you look sick in that dress" can mean very different things.


I think fag is more for the skinny/wimpy regardless of sexuality, and happily use it to insult people ^_^
 
so say it takes 2+ years to put through a combined bill and less than 2 years to put through two separate ones achieving the same thing? why choose the combined option?

Say it takes just 3-6 weeks to make an amendment and the hoohaa surrounding the length of time an amendment would take is all political gambit taking?

Entire legislation has been passed in a matter of weeks using fast-track processes, it isn't that the Government cannot do this, it is that they choose not to do this.


Why choose to pass discriminating legislation to replace discriminative legislation?
 
[..] as far as the etymology of Marriage, there is a lot of misconceptions and misunderstanding of its origins being bandied around here and if we look at the actual origin of the modern word from the Vulgar Latin it specifically defines as a bonding in order to procreate as the original meaning related to breeding pairs in agriculture, the association with the Roman Conubium (the actual legal process) came later [..]

Can you give a more detailed etymology? That's the first time I've seen breeding pairs in agriculture cited as the origin of the word 'marriage'.
 
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Pretty sure that's a photoshop job, even to my untrained, squinting and slightly refreshed eye.

I know, Slowpoke.jpg etc...
 
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I don't want to be sending my child to a school where it grows up with homosexuality pushed in its face by marxist teachers who advocate that male and female identity is a cultural invention.

I do, apart from the Marxism, and I want every child to be raised the same way so that future generations will have a better society to live in.

I'm making two assumptions about the real meaning of your rhetoric:

1) When you are referring to homosexuality being "pushed in its face", you mean that it's done so a fair bit less than heterosexuality is.

2) When you write "male and female identity" you mean "gender" and you've failed to understand the difference.
 
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Exactly, I makes no difference to my life if two men or women get married.

I'm not going to ditch the girlfriend & start hot-dogging it up at the local gay bar if it get's made legal, nothing will change - life will go on.

Something that leaps out from the anti-homosexual speech is how extremely attractive they think homosexuality is. Over and over again, they tell us that if homosexuality is seen as a reasonable thing then most people will be homosexual.

It's wrong to claim that all people who object to homosexuality are actually homosexual themselves, but a lot of them seem very eager to make it seem that way.
 
I am not the warped one here. How is advocating for the traditional family warped? How is advocating for not brainwashing young children with pro homosexual information warped?

This is what you people do, you twist it all around, here we have our resident white knight feminist calling me authoritarian. Oh the irony.

I am openly and vehemently anti-feminist. Feminism is sexist to the core and utterly disgusting. It's a dishonest, hypocritical attack on sexual equality by usurping and corrupting it, like a virus infecting a host cell and using it to conceal itself from the host's defences while corrupting it into a factory to produce more more viruses. It's a foul thing, a vile parasite.

I think you're talking crap and I think you're warped. That isn't a feminist position - it's an egalitarian one. I think you're warped because you're advocating brainwashing young children with pointless and harmful rubbish to suit your pointless and harmful authoritarian dictats about how everyone should be and how everyone should live and how everyone should conform to whatever pointless and harmful restricted roles you have decided must be imposed on people on the basis of what type of genitals they have.
 
[..] Didn't you get the memo, Brighton has a population of 100% homosexuals & anybody who supports gay marriage is actually gay.*





*may not be serious.

So...how about visiting Brighton? Is that enough?

I've got it! If everyone visits Brighton and becomes homosexual, then we can all live happily ever after.

Hmm...we may need to spend a lot of money building far larger transport systems for Brighton. It would take ages to channel 60M people through Brighton with its current road and rail systems. This could be a problem.
 
This whole debate amazes me. To me it all boils down to a simple question:

What right have you or I and more importnatly the State, to tell anyone who they should love, sleep with or make a commitment to?
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That's not the question when marriage has any legal status. Marriage has legal rights and responsibilities attached to it, so it is a matter for the state and, by extension since this is a partial democracy, every individual.
 
That's not the question when marriage has any legal status. Marriage has legal rights and responsibilities attached to it, so it is a matter for the state and, by extension since this is a partial democracy, every individual.

So what you're saying then is that gay people aren't able to handle the responsibility?

I'm sorry, but that argument is absolute horse **** of the highest (or lowest) order.

e: unless you don't actually believe that argument, in which case why are you perpetuating horse **** you don't believe in.
 
[..] I respect the differences between people [..]

That's a lie. If you did, then you would be opposed to gendered roles and pressures and you wouldn't think in terms of, to quote your own words, "male and female identity".

You are advocating the opposite of what you claim to respect - you deny the differences between people in order to promote your belief that there are no people, only groups.

The people you speak against are advocating the opposite of what you claim they are advocating - they are saying that differences exist on the individual level, that everyone is different.

Your position is either profoundly dishonest or profoundly deluded.
 
Why are you guy's feeding the trolls ?

You can appreciate gay people may follow one of the main religions and in this case Christianity and will believe what is written in the bible, as I understand it the church accepts homosexuals but does not accept the 'act'. So you will have homosexuals who will not support Gay Marriage because they think it goes against the tradition of the church.

It depends on how you interpret what's written in the Christian bible. So different Christian churches accept different things - some think homosexuality itself is wrong, some think only homosexual sex is wrong (i.e. homosexuals are fine as long as they are celibate), some think that homosexual sex is fine within Christianity. It is possible to interpret the Christian bible that way - the handful of passages referring to homosexual sex might be referring to specfic acts in specific circumstances, not to homosexual sex in general. Or maybe not to homosexuality at all in some verses - modern English bibles translate "arsenokoitai" as "homosexuals" but it's not really known what the word means. 100 years ago they were translating it as "masturbators". There are only a couple of dozen extant uses of the word, all of which come after the biblical use and almost all of which are directly linked to it (e.g. people quoting it).

What the Christian bible says about homosexuality is rather less clear than it's usually made out to be.
 
So what you're saying then is that gay people aren't able to handle the responsibility?

I'm sorry, but that argument is absolute horse **** of the highest (or lowest) order.

e: unless you don't actually believe that argument, in which case why are you perpetuating horse **** you don't believe in.

Why are you making things up and pretending they have anything to do with me? That's very dishonest of you.

The horse muck is your own. You clean it up. Don't pretend it's mine.

What I said is that laws are the business of the state. That's not a difficult concept to understand and I am telling you now to stop lying about what I said or I'll report you.
 
Well, imagine if you were unable to receive a service because you were in a minority group being discriminated against. Is that fair?

I don't have to imagine that - I'm a man, so it has happened to me quite often.

If it's OK to have a business that provides a service only to women, why is it not OK to have a business that provides a service only to heterosexuals? Either discriminating in that way is wrong or it isn't. I think it's wrong and I think it's more wrong to have the hypocrisy of "all groups are equal but some are more equal than others".
 
I don't have to imagine that - I'm a man, so it has happened to me quite often.

If it's OK to have a business that provides a service only to women, why is it not OK to have a business that provides a service only to heterosexuals? Either discriminating in that way is wrong or it isn't. I think it's wrong and I think it's more wrong to have the hypocrisy of "all groups are equal but some are more equal than others".
Having justifiable exclusionary groups is fine.

Rape support centres for one, gyms or places where a person has to strip off (same logic as changing rooms).

As with everything, I don't think a singular black & white law is sufficient - but overall then I'd agree, but exceptions may always be required.
 
what I don't understand is how that female only garage works, how do they get away with only employing women?
 
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