ED induced through use of porn

[PapaLazaru]

As soon as I'm in a girl the conditions just get worse. First minute is fine, then it just becomes too loose and slippery and I just die. Have to keep on manually re-bonering every minute or so.

I bet the ladies love that.

 

[gothic_hobbit]

The issue that I have with porn is that it's just so fake.

It's even more fake than Hollywood IMHO !

 

[LordSplodge]

True dat!

Doesn't help that I am better at self-HJs than the gf, lol.

You have probably been ****ing yourself far long than she has been ****ing you.

Teach her and then sit back and enjoy.

The issue that I have with porn is that it's just so fake.

It's even more fake than Hollywood IMHO !

Sure, mainstream porn is as fake as it gets. However look up some good amateur porn and it isn't fake. Just like non-porn movies there are good movies and bad movies. Avoid the mainstream tat and you'd be surprised.

 

[Muzy]

thanks OP for this thread, that did open my eye.

 

[Dave L]

http://www.young-goddess.com/

 

[tdream]

Wait a minute... in the first few days arousal and intercourse isn't an issue? Then why bother doing this in the first place. Intercourse was an issue I thought for you to take ED seriously...

 

[V4NT0M]

Thanks for the tip I'm going cold turkey.

 

[regulus]

Haha. Some of the responses made me chuckle

Though, serious time now. I had a little ... let us call it a 'situation' last night where little James didn't want to come out and play. Well, he DID come out for the first 10min before mysteriously disappearing. The girlfriend gave me a funny look and I burned with shame. She tried laughing it off but that made it worse.

However, the issue was alcohol. It always has been for me. Shared two bottles of NZ white at dinner last night and for some reason alcohol always messes me up in that way. Tonight we have a saucy night planned but beforehand she wants to meet up with some mates for a few drinks. 'Luckily' I was a the dentist yesterday and I'm going to claim I'm on antibiotics and can't drink. That way a good time will be had by both of us later.

 

[TheMeekon]

Interesting thread. It all makes sense with the habitual dopamine release theory. It could also explain a few 'problems' I had back in the late 90s after discovering the internet haha.

I might have to try a taper off it now after being single for 2 years.

 

[doofer]

When I was younger I could get an erection and bend an iron bar over it, but now I'm in my forties and after many years of viewing porn I can no longer manage the feat as my wrists are ****ed.

 

[TheMeekon]

When I was younger I could get an erection and bend an iron bar over it, but now I'm in my forties and after many years of viewing porn I can no longer manage the feat as my wrists are ****ed.

Jesus, I'm 30 and I'm really thinking of tapering off now then!

 

[WeedRamen]

Why I always take care of the morning wood 'without aid' so to speak. Any other other urges I get after that I may use supplementary material but mostly it's because i'm too lazy to turn on the computer in the morning and I have a vivid enough imagination

 

[matty114]

I am 22 and I have had a PMO addiction for 6 years now. It has ruined the last 5 years of my life. I only realised masturbation was the cause of all my problems after finding the NoFap subreddit 2 months ago, I had bad social anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and no motivation to do anything in life. I avoided any contact with my friends and family, all thanks to the amount of masturbation I did.

After reading that subreddit I decided to change my life, It took me 1 month of trying to give it up before I could go more than a day without masturbating and it still is hard now. Some days I wake up more depressed then I have ever been. But overall I have never felt this good for YEARS. I have now signed on at the Job centre to help me get a job, signed up at the Gym last week and have been going every day.

It is going to be hard(or not) if I get a girlfriend. This is a good read http://yourbrainonporn.com/node/79

 

[robgmun]

Christ this is all a load of ********. I'm 37 and still have the same drive I've always had, the only time I see problems is when I allow myself to get too fat and stop going to the gym. I hit the gym again and i'm back to normal. It's not too much fapping that's the problem, it's always general health

 

[LordSplodge]

Christ this is all a load of ********. I'm 37 and still have the same drive I've always had, the only time I see problems is when I allow myself to get too fat and stop going to the gym. I hit the gym again and i'm back to normal. It's not too much fapping that's the problem, it's always general health

You heard it right here. Sexual therapist, Robgmun, says pumping iron is the cure to all that ails you.

 

[robgmun]

You heard it right here. Sexual therapist, Robgmun, says pumping iron is the cure to all that ails you.

Didn't read lol huh? Didn't say pumping iron, i said exercise, massive difference between the two actually. But if you start cardio exercises (running, rowing, elliptical trainer etc) then it increases stamina and endurance. Increasing good protein in your diet at the same time and i bet huge amounts of money that after a couple of months your performance in the bedroom will be like it was 10-15 years ago

Fapping is healthy and shouldn't be stopped (linked to better prostate health) and if little jonny doesn't want to play then it's either stress or poor health

Really???

This is a great thread!

Yes really, it not like that's an excessive amount or something

*High fives arknor*

 

[arknor]

...and ruined many more.

and this folks is why you don't make home movies

anyway I've always has a massive sex drive and I always will, Looking at porn doesn't seem to be changing that....
When I was married I had sex 3-6 times a day when the wife was willing and faped like hell to porn when she wasn't.

Never did me any harm.

The only thing killing boners is ugly birds and winter weather

 

[Dave M]

I am 22 and I have had a PMO addiction for 6 years now. It has ruined the last 5 years of my life. I only realised masturbation was the cause of all my problems after finding the NoFap subreddit 2 months ago, I had bad social anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and no motivation to do anything in life. I avoided any contact with my friends and family, all thanks to the amount of masturbation I did.

After reading that subreddit I decided to change my life, It took me 1 month of trying to give it up before I could go more than a day without masturbating and it still is hard now. Some days I wake up more depressed then I have ever been. But overall I have never felt this good for YEARS. I have now signed on at the Job centre to help me get a job, signed up at the Gym last week and have been going every day.

It is going to be hard(or not) if I get a girlfriend. This is a good read http://yourbrainonporn.com/node/79

Interesting but isn't it as likely that the feeling of control over your life abstaining has given you has caused the lift in mood? Not that it's a bad thing, it's often easier to play the brains games than to try to force a new behaviour by willpower alone.

 

[Skillmister]

You heard it right here. Sexual therapist, Robgmun, says pumping iron is the cure to all that ails you.

It actually is.

 

[Narj]

The problem is, once you start watching the freaky stuff, it's going to become accepted as "normal" and you're going to have to look damned hard to find a gf that will let you do that to her.