Soldato
I bet the ladies love that.
ED induced through use of porn
- Thread starter Streeteh
- Start date
- Status
I bet the ladies love that.
Associate
- Joined
- 7 Feb 2009
- Posts
- 2,128
The issue that I have with porn is that it's just so fake.
It's even more fake than Hollywood IMHO !
It's even more fake than Hollywood IMHO !
Soldato
You have probably been ****ing yourself far long than she has been ****ing you.
Teach her and then sit back and enjoy.
Sure, mainstream porn is as fake as it gets. However look up some good amateur porn and it isn't fake. Just like non-porn movies there are good movies and bad movies. Avoid the mainstream tat and you'd be surprised.
Soldato
Thanks for the tip I'm going cold turkey.
Haha. Some of the responses made me chuckle 
Though, serious time now. I had a little ... let us call it a 'situation' last night where little James didn't want to come out and play. Well, he DID come out for the first 10min before mysteriously disappearing. The girlfriend gave me a funny look and I burned with shame. She tried laughing it off but that made it worse.
However, the issue was alcohol. It always has been for me. Shared two bottles of NZ white at dinner last night and for some reason alcohol always messes me up in that way. Tonight we have a saucy night planned but beforehand she wants to meet up with some mates for a few drinks. 'Luckily' I was a the dentist yesterday and I'm going to claim I'm on antibiotics and can't drink. That way a good time will be had by both of us later.
Though, serious time now. I had a little ... let us call it a 'situation' last night where little James didn't want to come out and play. Well, he DID come out for the first 10min before mysteriously disappearing. The girlfriend gave me a funny look and I burned with shame. She tried laughing it off but that made it worse.
However, the issue was alcohol. It always has been for me. Shared two bottles of NZ white at dinner last night and for some reason alcohol always messes me up in that way. Tonight we have a saucy night planned but beforehand she wants to meet up with some mates for a few drinks. 'Luckily' I was a the dentist yesterday and I'm going to claim I'm on antibiotics and can't drink. That way a good time will be had by both of us later.
Associate
Interesting thread. It all makes sense with the habitual dopamine release theory. It could also explain a few 'problems' I had back in the late 90s after discovering the internet haha.
I might have to try a taper off it now after being single for 2 years.
I might have to try a taper off it now after being single for 2 years.
Soldato
When I was younger I could get an erection and bend an iron bar over it, but now I'm in my forties and after many years of viewing porn I can no longer manage the feat as my wrists are ****ed.
Associate
Jesus, I'm 30 and I'm really thinking of tapering off now then!
Associate
Why I always take care of the morning wood 'without aid' so to speak. Any other other urges I get after that I may use supplementary material but mostly it's because i'm too lazy to turn on the computer in the morning and I have a vivid enough imagination
I am 22 and I have had a PMO addiction for 6 years now. It has ruined the last 5 years of my life. I only realised masturbation was the cause of all my problems after finding the NoFap subreddit 2 months ago, I had bad social anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and no motivation to do anything in life. I avoided any contact with my friends and family, all thanks to the amount of masturbation I did.
After reading that subreddit I decided to change my life, It took me 1 month of trying to give it up before I could go more than a day without masturbating and it still is hard now. Some days I wake up more depressed then I have ever been. But overall I have never felt this good for YEARS. I have now signed on at the Job centre to help me get a job, signed up at the Gym last week and have been going every day.
It is going to be hard(or not) if I get a girlfriend. This is a good read http://yourbrainonporn.com/node/79
After reading that subreddit I decided to change my life, It took me 1 month of trying to give it up before I could go more than a day without masturbating and it still is hard now. Some days I wake up more depressed then I have ever been. But overall I have never felt this good for YEARS. I have now signed on at the Job centre to help me get a job, signed up at the Gym last week and have been going every day.
It is going to be hard(or not
) if I get a girlfriend. This is a good read http://yourbrainonporn.com/node/79
Last edited:
Christ this is all a load of ********. I'm 37 and still have the same drive I've always had, the only time I see problems is when I allow myself to get too fat and stop going to the gym. I hit the gym again and i'm back to normal. It's not too much fapping that's the problem, it's always general health
Soldato
You heard it right here. Sexual therapist, Robgmun, says pumping iron is the cure to all that ails you.
Didn't read lol huh? Didn't say pumping iron, i said exercise, massive difference between the two actually. But if you start cardio exercises (running, rowing, elliptical trainer etc) then it increases stamina and endurance. Increasing good protein in your diet at the same time and i bet huge amounts of money that after a couple of months your performance in the bedroom will be like it was 10-15 years ago
Fapping is healthy and shouldn't be stopped (linked to better prostate health) and if little jonny doesn't want to play then it's either stress or poor health
Yes really, it not like that's an excessive amount or something
*High fives arknor*
Last edited:
and this folks is why you don't make home movies
anyway I've always has a massive sex drive and I always will, Looking at porn doesn't seem to be changing that....
When I was married I had sex 3-6 times a day when the wife was willing and faped like hell to porn when she wasn't.
Never did me any harm.
The only thing killing boners is ugly birds and winter weather
Last edited:
I am 22 and I have had a PMO addiction for 6 years now. It has ruined the last 5 years of my life. I only realised masturbation was the cause of all my problems after finding the NoFap subreddit 2 months ago, I had bad social anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and no motivation to do anything in life. I avoided any contact with my friends and family, all thanks to the amount of masturbation I did.
After reading that subreddit I decided to change my life, It took me 1 month of trying to give it up before I could go more than a day without masturbating and it still is hard now. Some days I wake up more depressed then I have ever been. But overall I have never felt this good for YEARS. I have now signed on at the Job centre to help me get a job, signed up at the Gym last week and have been going every day.
It is going to be hard(or not
Interesting but isn't it as likely that the feeling of control over your life abstaining has given you has caused the lift in mood? Not that it's a bad thing, it's often easier to play the brains games than to try to force a new behaviour by willpower alone.
Soldato
It actually is.
- Status