Destroyed by a girlfriend.. Damn

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GrimsbyLAD said:
Never accused her of anything. I have been nothing but mature about it asked her reasons and said i only want the best for her if she feels its best then thats what will have to happen and maybe some day she may miss me etc.

I don't see the point disrespecting a woman over something like this and shouting abuse or "getting even" its a waste of time and can get one into some serious trouble
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Woah woah woah, wait a minute. We'll have none of this levelheadedness in GD relationship threads, thanks.
 
Go out and enjoy life, 19yr old in serious relationship when you could be coming and going as you please.

I'm now 30, married with a child, and sometimes i wish i had a remote to mute my wife, our marriage isn't the greatest my wife is 23 and i think that we rushed into marriage to early as i am starting to realise the immaturity on her side "Drama Queen".

To give you an idea, she cries if the hair dryer stops working if she's going into town clubbing or her hair isn't right, I wish i had a picture moment for it cause it was a WTF moment.

Trust me 19yr old is way to young for any serious relationship and count yourself lucky if she wanted kids, because it is not easy.

Take this as a get out of jail free card, she willl prey on some other poor sole who will get her up the duff, then take every bit of money you have, for her to stop you skydiving sounds like someone who is controlling and insecure. Be the Alpha Male, google "no more mr nice guy" .
 
19? you're still a youngster!! enjoy your freedom while it lasts, play the field experience different flavors (if you know what i mean) have fun with your mates, play games without being nagged etc....
 
dave1983 said:
Go out and enjoy life, 19yr old in serious relationship when you could be coming and going as you please.

I'm now 30, married with a child, and sometimes i wish i had a remote to mute my wife, our marriage isn't the greatest my wife is 23 and i think that we rushed into marriage to early as i am starting to realise the immaturity on her side "Drama Queen".

To give you an idea, she cries if the hair dryer stops working if she's going into town clubbing or her hair isn't right, I wish i had a picture moment for it cause it was a WTF moment.

Trust me 19yr old is way to young for any serious relationship and count yourself lucky if she wanted kids, because it is not easy.

Take this as a get out of jail free card, she willl prey on some other poor sole who will get her up the duff, then take every bit of money you have, for her to stop you skydiving sounds like someone who is controlling and insecure. Be the Alpha Male, google "no more mr nice guy" .
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You sound like a charming person to be married to. Not quite sure why you're surprised that there is a difference between you and your wife, when you're nearly a third older than her.....differing stages of life and all that.

OP it's tough, and sucks balls. However, you're 19, and as a fellow who is the wrong side of 23, I can assure you that it only gets better.

However, don't be dragged into thinking that sleeping around/avoiding relationships when young is the way forward. Finding the right girl will open up your life far more than anything else can. A good partner/friend to share adventures with is the best thing. :)
 
Seems the overwhelming advice is to forget and go smash some more pasty.. Excellent :) I shall go enjoy myself i guess I kinda deserve it. Came up on my iblacklist earlier as iPhones cannot block people without it ( what's that all about? ) she had tried to message me but I set it to just delete the messages :') says she tried but I never got to read it. Ill just set it to not even alert me as I think soon ill get like 20 texts a day and I can't be bothered with that. Seriously 4th page also?! Does nobody do much but bar sit on here? ;)
 
We need to guide this young pup in the ways of life, stick with us Lad..... we'll see you alright! :P
 
Well I'm stuck at work, No PC or wifi just a phone :/ not allowed my phone actually with me though when I'm off my lunch :/ I wish I had an office job sometimes! Ah well atleast iv got no one moaning about me going to i49 now :) Haha I shall be able to do as I wish again I am kind of looking forward to this!
 
You are 19, this wasn't a serious relationship. You will disagree, but when you have a real serious relationship you will see that this was incomparable.

Young love is a bitch to deal with when it goes wrong, just go out with your friends and fill the time with something else.
 
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