Why do friends become "A" Holes when you change your body ?

Going to make an assumption, you're a girl aren't you? If so, drop those 'friends' like a bag of **** and move on.
 
I was expecting the thread to be about the OP's friends negative reaction to his sex change op.
 
I am going to post another suggestion. Perhaps you've turned into one of those gym rats? That's why you can't take their ribbings, because you're are too involved with your own vanity?
 
Dicehunter said:
I only ever explained what I was doing if I got asked about it, Some of the things, I won't repeat them all but the main ones are "you look a right mess" "you ok there aids victim" "Why dont you try going to the gym you look ill" "If I looked like you id hang myself".

And those are the nice ones.
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OK seriously now, the first three comments could be taken as "bants" but the hang yourself comment is outright bullying and if you're getting worse than that... Time to sack those guys off and find some proper friends.
 
I would weight train and suppose look it to an extent, all my mates know I do, some are interested others not in the slightest..some times get the "size of your guns" joke..., but, they are my mates, and either of us ask each other a favour they are always willing.

Find some better friends.

If they are overdoing it, or are serious in how they come across ( most times masked as a "joke" but you can hear the difference)..its purely jealously, though they might not see it in themselves, fact is people resent others that can make a positive physical change and start looking better, they hate you for the fact you can do it, and they seemingly cannot be bothered. For a lot of people they wont admit it, but they have tried at some point and failed cause they didnt get in shape after 1 week of trying, and are currently not happy with how they look in the mirror.
 
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Dicehunter said:
I started training properly in June 2010 and I'm now currently sitting at 211 pounds, 6"2 with body fat sitting at 12%.

Now since I started training my friends have started to get increasingly nasty and vile in the things they say some of them downright hurtful.

Is it just jealousy or are they just a complete bunch of douchebags ?
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thread title is misleading, I thought you had a sex change :eek:
 
i'd bail on the pretty sharpish and be around some more accepting people, sounds like they've got a load of chips on their shoulders.

twist3d0n3 - 6'3", 13.5st, bodyfat unknown
 
Come and post in SA, we have all kinds of love sharing in there.

P.s Worst i have 12% bf post ever


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Your mates shouldn't care less what you look like. Sound like a bunch of insecure bigots to me.
 
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