What would you do? Brother in laws sister woe.

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It was my nephews christening a couple of weekends ago. Both sides of the family were there, as you'd expect. My brother in laws sister who moved to Dubai 6 years ago was also there. I've never met her before but there was a bit of an instant attraction between the two of us.

Anyhow, the day continues and we all head back to my sisters for an after party. The drinks are flowing and the flirting between us both gets a little obvious (nothing dutty, just smiling, touching of the arms etc)

The brother in law pulls his sister to one side and warns her to stay away from me. She tells him to mind his business, he goes to bed.

Half an hour or so later me and her go outside to talk. Bare in mind I didn't know what her brother had said to her. The flirting continues and I suggest we go out of sight. Next thing my sister comes marching down the yard and goes completely mental at us both.

Me and my sister have words and I leave. Next thing I get a phone call from the brother in law basically threatening to "tear my face off". I hang up because I'm I refuse to listen to threats over what was a kiss. He then texts saying I have "serious problems now".

The following day me and my sister make up but she still thinks it's wrong. I don't hear a word from the brother in law. The next day to that he texts me. He hasn't dropped it like the rest of us and wants to have words with me. I tell him to just drop it, everyone else has. He then says I'm lucky he hasn't dropped me and starts threatening me again.

Anyhow, he's now gone massively down in my estimations but the real dilemma is, me and his sister met the following two nights, have completely hit it off and she's now asked me to go visit her in Dubai in 5 weeks time.

This has huge potential to cause grief with my sister and brother in law but the funny thing is, we have everyone else's backing.

Firstly, what would you do? And secondly, what the hell is my sister and brother in laws problem with it? It might seem a bit Jeremy Kyle but technically there is nothing wrong with it.... is there?
 
No problems whatsoever.

Hold your ground, do not let others dictate what you do.

His threats have no value, and even if they do, you can always go the official route and report him for whatever.

Now get that girl you want ;D
 
Text him back, your little sister is going to have a face like a painters radio, want me to send a pic?
 
Your brother in law sounds like he's taking his protective brother role a bit too far, tell him to stop being a ****.
 
Go see girl in Dubai. Brother in law can quite frankly go jump off a bridge. As long as you're happy and the girl (his sister) is happy who the hell cares. You not hurting anyone except him who sounds like an idiot.
 
So he's good enough for your sister, but you aren't good enough for his?

Tell him to do one, then do her.
 
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