How do I meet women?

Take women out of the equation. Focus on yourself and get healthy for you.

'Accepting' you're a mess is nothing more than lazy. Feel better in yourself, and everything else will fall into place.


Remember, you can't out-exercise a bad diet. Go to a nutritionalist, be strict with yourself long term and exercise because it helps.
 
Mikey1000 said:
This may seem a weird way to help you out of your problems but it can help give you confidence and ultimately encourage you to loose weight!

I can't post the link because it's an over 18 website but Google 'Adultwork' and look for a girl in your area who is genuine.
When I say genuine I mean a girl who is well thought of - check her feedback and field reports. Pick one who you feel will treat you with respect and will try to understand your problems.

If you have any preconceived ideas about this type of girl, forget them because many of them are NOT what's portrayed in the media.
They're obviously girls who make a living from this line of work but many have a brain, are NOT on drugs, are considerate of their clients and will at least give you a hearing.

I'm not suggesting you take her up on all the services, that's up to you, although if you do it will give you confidence with women.
What I'm suggesting is at least talk about your problems and have some fun with her.

IMPORTANT:
If you decide to go this route I suggest you briefly describe yourself and check there won't be a problem for the girl you want to see.
Good luck.
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Booking a skank probably isn't the way forward :eek:
 
MooMoo444 said:
Even if they are 'clean' and are a nice person, someone who sells their body for $$ doesn't deserve much respect.
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Genuine ones are very particular about being clean!
The $$ is irrelevant really. What's the difference between one who has multiple partners and one who charges? No difference!
 
I was similar situation to you at one point and i just decided to join a local gym....it's helped me a lot and i am feeling a lot better(eating miles better too, cut all crisps/fizzy drinks/sweets out....your body will feel a lot better).I think you should maybe join some social club/events or since you are already losing weight take it the step further by joining a gym or go regular running/biking each day.

Getting a lot fitter and more in shape sure will help your confidence.
 
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I echo the above comments. Do you drink? Cut that out too. From personal experience, using alcohol whilst going through a hard time just makes the situation worse, might feel great whilst drinking but the days that follow are hellishly depressing.
 
You obviously have the pimp genes from your Dad from what you say, but like a key opens a door you just need to access them, in this case it looks like using disability power is super effective.

So bag a wheelchair from somewhere and you'll clean up in no time :)
 
When my wife left me I went through a funk that reminmds me of your comments about dying along. However, I waited until my decree nisi came through and then plunged into online dating. I soon met someone wonderful and we're getting married in May. Whilst I don't know your personal circumstances, have a little faith in yourself and others. I went from a depressed divorcee to finding a wonderful woman and a new daughter.
One final comment: Don't rush. I was online for 3 days before first 'speaking' to my new partner. She's been online for 2.5 years. Have patience - it'll happen in it's own time.
Best of luck.
 
As has been said, join a gym. Get involved in a couple of classes too, get to know a few people there through a mutual interest (i.e. getting/keeping fit)
 
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