Anyone had a childhood girlfriend who you never got over?

Mr. Pickle

Mr. Pickle

Mr. Pickle

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When I was 3 years old my best friend was a girl. I spent all day with her and we used to kiss in the pram.

One day at play school we were playing with bricks with the teacher and the game was boring me, and then she looked at me and smiled, so I grabbed her and kissed her. It was amazing, I had no concept that she might reject it or anything, no hesitation, it was just natural to me that if she smiled then I should kiss her. Anyway I got sent to the naughty corner for doing it by the teacher and I started crying.

She left and moved to Ireland when I was 4 and I saw her again when I was 11 or something but I didnt speak to her. She left me with her goldfish that I looked after until I was 16. So in my room I always had a reminder of her

I am certain this experienced has ruined my love life now as an adult. Its like Im in search of an identical replacement for her
 
O... K...

There are some weird-ass advice threads popping up today. Is it cause it's Christmas?
 
Who even remembers when they were three, least of all have a sexual experience?

Besides I am a little concerned that the OP is looking for an identical replacement to a 3-4year old!!!
 
I think most people still think fondly of early girls/boys, Im 41 and still dream about my first girlfriend maybe 3 or 4 times a year and have done since i was 18 or 19, in it I never ever end up with her, she's always just out of reach.
 
I had no sexual feelings when I kissed her, it was just like a natural reaction to her smiling at me. Its the only clear memory I remember

I only have 4 memories of her really. That one, I think the first one we were both in prams, then the day she left and gave me the goldfish and also feeding the ducks
 
Unlucky op. I found my first girlfriend sharing her play dough with another boy during milk break. I've had trust issues ever since.
 
"...and now, 60 years later, the goldfish is just a skeleton floating in a pristinely maintained fishbowl, with a photo of a three year old in a silver frame next to it."

I think this is either the first or last line of a very disturbing story.
 
You have made her what you want her to be in your head now....its jsut as possible now she is an absolute thunder ****.

Thing is no girl you expect is going to live up to the "perfect" one in your head.

Mentally...you're utterly ****ed though.....like...really screwed up...no really.


This text isn't even on the screen.

Pc isn't even on.
 
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Mr. Pickle said:
I had no sexual feelings when I kissed her, it was just like a natural reaction to her smiling at me. Its the only clear memory I remember

I only have 4 memories of her really. That one, I think the first one we were both in prams, then the day she left and gave me the goldfish and also feeding the ducks
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4 memories of this girl when you were, what, 3 years old and you've managed to make her the answer to all the world's problems? Is GD having an influx of people on day release today? :p

Jic89 said:
Unlucky op. I found my first girlfriend sharing her play dough with another boy during milk break. I've had trust issues ever since.
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Genuine LOL. :D
 
Mr. Pickle said:
Its like Im in search of an identical replacement for her
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What do you mean? Whoever you're fantasising about having a relationship with may not even exist now! You have no idea if you or her would've ever ended up together or even what her personality is like these days.

It will ruin your life if you keep this up. But it doesn't have to. You'll figure out what it is to ACTUALLY connect with someone some day and it'll be great. Until then unless you get this 3 year old out of your head you will never find anyone to be 'good enough' because they won't be 'the same'.

All the time ignoring the fact that you're not even entirely sure what draws you to her in the first place other than the fact she was your 1st female friend, your first kiss, and you can't have her.
 
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