Weird neighbour keeps moving our pram.

Wow, this thread idk, OP seems like you just have someone who has moved in and seen it and it has for some reason put pure rage into him everytime he sees it. So now when he sees i he feels the need to move it just to annoy you. Plus its not even as if its there for an extended period of time, as you say its there for like 20 minutes and then brought back up stairs when your wife gets home. Unfortunately due to the lease by law you can't leave it there. If it were me, i wouldn't give a damn about you leaving your pram there however you seem to have been blessed to live beside that man, who has a dick so far up his ass he feels the need to move your pram when he walks past it.
 
Sad to see so many angry and selfish people in here :(

OP is in the wrong for being inconsiderate and leaving his pram in a communal area.
Old guy is in the wrong for not leaving a polite note on the pram the first/second time it annoyed him.
Robgmun is in the wrong for stealing and vandalising other people's property.

Essentially what we've established is that everyone is a **** and if they stopped being such ****s and actually communicated with each other, then everyone would be a bit happier.
 
Haggisman said:
Sad to see so many angry and selfish people in here :(

OP is in the wrong for being inconsiderate and leaving his pram in a communal area.
Old guy is in the wrong for not leaving a polite note on the pram the first/second time it annoyed him.
Robgmun is in the wrong for stealing and vandalising other people's property.

Essentially what we've established is that everyone is a **** and if they stopped being such ****s and actually communicated with each other, then everyone would be a bit happier.
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Hang about, I wasted time on several mornings trying to find out whoever was doing it since they wouldn't leave a note. Once I was sure I spoke to him, and decided my only option was to stop leaving it there. How does that make me a ***? :confused:
 
Haggisman said:
OP is in the wrong for being inconsiderate and leaving his pram in a communal area.
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How the hell did you come to that conclusion ? How is the OP being inconsiderate by leaving a pram in a place that causes nobody any inconvenience ? Yes it is a communal area, but the OP did state it was not in any ones way. If anything the OP is being considerate to his partner. :confused:
 
One thing that hasnt been mensioned, how woiuld you like it if EVERYONE in the flats left a large piece of property in the communal area, tent, pram, bicycle, etc etc, YOU wouldnt like that one bit, so what makes you so special that you can leave your stuff there but no-one else can, you've got some nerve mister.
 
A woman has been found guilty of murdering five members of a neighbouring family, including three children, by starting a fire.

Melanie Smith, 43, started the fire at Maes y Groes last October in a row over Ms Shiers' pushchair, which was left in a shared hallway
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That BBC article is bizarre. Someone would actually do that?
 
FutileBreadMachine said:
Hang about, I wasted time on several mornings trying to find out whoever was doing it since they wouldn't leave a note. Once I was sure I spoke to him, and decided my only option was to stop leaving it there. How does that make me a ***? :confused:
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Whilst I can completely sympathise with you trying to make things easier for your wife, ultimately you were leaving an item in a location where you had no right to leave it.

Sliver said:
How is the OP being inconsiderate by leaving a pram in a place that causes nobody any inconvenience ?
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It obviously was causing somebody inconvenience, as evidenced by the fact the guy was moving it.

Sliver said:
Yes it is a communal area, but the OP did state it was not in any ones way
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Where do you draw the line though? Who decides what is acceptable to leave in a communal area?
 
Why the hell is everyone in this thread so beta?

I commend OP (who I hope is a Meshuggah fan) for actually manning up and calling the guy out on moving the pram. The guy is quite clearly a shady, passive aggressive loser who's just trying to have some kind of negative impact on another dude's life.

Let him write to management - they won't give a ****. If they do ask you anything about it, document in full what has happened and explain that it's to help your wife and child. Children don't even use prams for that long a time - a few years isn't that much.

I can't imagine anyone in your building cares that you leave the pram in the hallway otherwise they would have said something. They probably see it and think:

"Oh, it's Futilebreadmachine's pram, leaving it downstairs to help his wife with the baby - what a sweetheart"

You weren't aggressive to this guy and he's clearly a weirdo.
 
Haggisman said:
Whilst I can completely sympathise with you trying to make things easier for your wife, ultimately you were leaving an item in a location where you had no right to leave it.



It obviously was causing somebody inconvenience, as evidenced by the fact the guy was moving it.



Where do you draw the line though? Who decides what is acceptable to leave in a communal area?
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Bear in mind, the guy actually didn't have any reason whatsoever to move it, he even said it was just because it was a communal area (not like he is in wheelchair or has to lift something through there). He was deviously pulling it into the path of people walking down the stairs so they would think I was leaving it in there way and he could get them on his side to complain about me. Like I said, he is a liar and initially claimed he just brushed past it before he admitted he had been moving it since he didn't like it being in the communal area.

He could have told me that in the first place instead of trying to annoy other residents (and us) by moving the pram in the way.
 
Sliver said:
No. From what has been posted, the guy moving the pram was doing it out of nothing more than pure mischievousness.
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Technically he was completely within his rights to move it.

I'm not saying I agree with how he went about it, he should have left a note or something, rather than being immature about it.

OP should be glad he didn't just report it to the building management, who (depending on the wording of OP's contract) could have just removed and destroyed it, or charged him for storage.
 
TBQH - Your pram could be considered a fire hazard. Someone did it in our flats, but kept leaving it 'against the wall' at the bottom of the stairs, meaning it was right in the way. It was a right pain in the *** for everyone, all because this person didnt want to carry it up the stairs - so we had to ask them to stop it. But yeah, just moving it is a bit passive-aggressive.
 
exhashdotdot said:
...Let him write to management - they won't give a ****.....
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Usually its management who insist on keeping fire exits/public spaces clear for insurance purposes. They'd have to be seen to be doing something.

We've only the OP word that it wasn't inconveniencing the other tenant. But tbh its really a side issue.
 
Try having a neighbour that comes out at 11p.m. and starts throwing kids toys around that are on OUR property, moves bins, pushes over the other neighbours coal piles etc (and yes... even tried to punch me etc... she is most bizarre). Believes she is the queen of the village. Thankfully I'm 3,500 miles away from that wierdo now, and the other good neighbour moved the other way to Australia lol.
 
exhashdotdot said:
You weren't aggressive to this guy and he's clearly a weirdo.
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You realise he was hiding behind a plant under the table in the hall with a video camera trying to 'catch' this guy having left a load of raisins in the pram as bait*, don't you? Who was the weirdo again?


*some of this may be made up
 
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Op you are wrong, completely and utterly wrong.

Communal areas are not your dumping ground. What stops people leaving prams, kids bikes, kayaks, etc?

Is it ok if some other residents block your pram in? As by your logic it is ok to leave crap out in the hall.

It sounds like you have outgrown the flat, time to buy a house or man up and keep the pram in your flat.

TBH I would have reported it/you to the management company long ago.
 
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