For some reason I have taken the time to read nearly every post in this thread, a few I didn't bother due to the way they started but I think I have got the jist. I don't mean this to be too personal but here goes.
OP has started a successful business and should feel proud of the fact
OP has a very immature outlook on others
OP has an ego that I feel has come from the need to impress others, probably from a lack of engagement as a child. I noticed that dad wasn't mentioned.
One thing that did spring to mind is that education has not been mentioned nearly enough. Through my education from my parents and my schooling I have an outlook on life that equated to me wanting to work and not spend my time sitting at home. Before I get berated for going to a posh school, I didn't. IT was a pretty poor school to be honest but school is what you make of it. The two people I looked up to as a child and in many respects, still look up to now are my parents. They installed the trait in me that means I am very uncomfortable when not working. Despite them going through a very trouble marriage, alcoholism and a number of other very upsetting circumstances that I could have used to blame unruly behaviour on and subsequent traits that would lead to being for want of a better phrase, a little
****. I never once was content with sitting at home and not applying myself to looking for work or working. I am not an angel by any means but I work and I pay tax and very rarely ask for anything from the government.
If you have parents who were happy to doss, it is a possibility that you too are happy to doss. If you don't respect your parents you will not respect your teachers and thus you will not gain a decent education. Something hard to comprehend as a 5 year old when the two greatest people in your life are your parents.
I haven't watched the show as I know it will annoy me so can't comment on that subject but I have worked in schools for a number of years and have seen the good, the bad and the ugly when it comes to parenting. You only need to see how a child talks to their parents to know how their child acts in class. There are however, exceptions as with all things.
With regards to benefits, the system is there to provide and it does so to ensure people can live and look for work (when able ). It is abused by many, but not all and there needs to be a clear dividing line between the two. Suggesting that people should start a business if they can't find work is just stupid as a suggestion. If it was that easy, everyone would be a director.
There is also a culture in this country where people feel they are too good to work doing certain jobs, the OP is one of those people, but when the system allows that culture to be practiced then the system is to blame. The ego of graduates who feel they should be able to walk into a 50k job after gaining a degree is a problem too.
One thing that is a personal bugbear that I see quite a lot in the area I live are people who are not working being in a position to somehow afford cigarettes and alcohol. I think the benefit structure should be such that food, babies supplies and rent should be taken care of by a voucher system and travel should also be supplied ( I haven't looked into whether it is or not, its just how I would run it) and that luxuries are not available. Human rights, human
****es, I don't think it is an appropriate use of money, even though the tax goes straight back into the Governments pocket.
I have kinda lost my train of thought now
The OP must remember that being a success at business doesn't mean you are successful at everything and that compassion should be shown when deserved. If the OP continues to talk to people the way he does he will miss out on business ventures. My brother is very successful in terms of his business and his life. I don't see eye to eye with him on everything but I know that if he were to treat people the way the OP does he wouldn't be where he is today.
I bet I get a TL: DR but meh
