Douchbaggy or good idea?

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Ok this is going to be forum suicide, but as most my friends are female and will give me the same answer, here goes...

So I broke up with my long term girlfriend of 4 years, 2 months ago, and haven't spoken to her at all in that time. The breakup was completely amiable, we both still love each other but just weren't compatible for the future.

It was my birthday a few days ago and she sent me a message saying happy birthday, and we got texting again, seeing how each other was, and conversation somehow turned to sex. She then basically came out and said until either of us find a new partner, she would like a friends with benefits setup, no chance of a relationship etc, and as soon as one of us asked the other to back off, or found a new partner, we would.

Now I'm currently a postgrad student, and as such probably won't struggle to find somebody new in too much time, but to be honest I've got too much work going on to try and smoosh anyone new. This setup could potentially be just the thing that I would like, however, I know she has a tendency to want more than she has stated, and there is no way I want a relationship with her again.

-Short Version- Ex girlfriend wants regular no strings attached sex, but I'm thinking she maybe wants more. What do I do?

-In before 'worst I can have a friends with benefits' thread ever.
 
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To be honest, I wouldn't. It just going to mess your head up. I doubt it's going to stay as no string attached sex, it rarely does!
 
Depends on your mental situation, I was already full aware that one of my ex's had been knocking about with at least 2 other guys before I went back there, she was most put back when I bagged up, even more so when I said "I know where you have been" still, she had nice **** and I had no emotional attachment to her, for me it was litterally face down ass up and go!

If you have already discussed this with other people but still feel the need to come here and ask, the first group you asked didnt give you the answer you wanted so you've come here...
If you can imagine in your head someone else rubbing his underwear covered parts against her underwear covered parts and honestly not give a rats ass then by all means go for it, however if the thought of someone else "pushing past the used bit" upsets you then I would walk away..
 
This has all the hallmarks of a trap.

Condom/protection fails, boom you end up with a child you have to support and she gets a house.
 
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