Douchbaggy or good idea?

Spunkey said:
We need to know what her hot:crazy ratio is here before making a decision.
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Too true.. we call it the Ruth scale. She was so far up the scale, it became named after her. MENTAL. She used to go out with a mate and would call him at like 2am saying what are you up to? I'm outside your house. Proper mental
 
I had a mate who did this setup (his ex was quite obviously keen for more of a relationship too)

It went on for about 18 months in which time he failed miserably to score elsewhere (the sex on tap made life a little too comfortable, I suspect - plus he was crap with women anyway)

Eventually he managed to get his end away with a different girl, one-night stand, and was back with his ex in a proper relationship within a month. I guess he just felt he needed to prove to himself he still "had it" so that he didn't feel so tied down with one girl :)

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Good idea but only through a glory hole, this will help you avoid emotional entanglement at this busy time and allow her to explore her inner whore, win win iyam and you did.
 
Although she suggested it, it isn't fair to go ahead with it if you think there is a real possibility she will end up wanting more. However, it's your call as to whether or not that fits into your moral compass and not really for anybody to dictate to you as to whether it is right or wrong.

Having been in your position a few years back, I did go ahead with it and felt pretty bad for doing it after. I thought she would end up getting attached and when she eventually did and I walked away because of it, it was really ugly.

The other thing to consider is that whilst you may not believe you will get attached, it's rarely that straightforward. Having also been on this side of it - telling myself I wouldn't get attached, but then getting attached - that is no bed of roses either. Once you cross the Rubicon there, you're in for a lot of unnecessary stress, aggravation and potential hurt. And even if you don't, you could sleep walk back into an old relationship, fooled by the rose-tinted specs for a while and eventually having to go through all the break-up crap all over again.

From personal experience, my advice would be to keep right on walking and get back on the horse when time allows you to do so. If your workload is already that bad, the last thing you need to be doing is playing with fire by thinking with your dick. But it's your call! :)
 
I would not reccomend it. Even if you think you can both seperate your feelings from it, one of you won't be able to.
 
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Sex with an Ex is the best kind of sex.
Do it and just be sure to leave that night / first thing every morning you've "done" it.
 
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