I really wanted to live in America too until I actually spent some time there on two occasions. I mean time in the 'real' America not the tourist areas.
My good friend actually married an American girl and emigrated over there several years ago. He seems to like it but then he grew up being bullied and picked on so 'home' was always something he wanted to escape from.
I found the people to be nice enough, and welcoming - but not in that "have a nice day" way they have in tourist areas.
But I just found some situations ridiculous. We were having dinner at a friends parents house one night when the subject of being gay came up and being the area it was - it was met with very heated exchanges from the bible loving people at the table. When I say heated, I mean a fight broke out at the dinner table and there was much spilled drink! We were guests and didnt know what do do with ourselves!
Add the fact that the people in these situations all have guns and it presents, I feel, quite a scary environment.
The father of our friend had guns all over the place, and explained in a matter of fact way how he had almost shot a person who came knocking on their door univited (apparently you dont just go on someones land and knock the door asking for directions - you may get shot).
Another odd situation is when it rained heavily, the people on the freeway all pulled over and stopped. Like they didnt know how to drive in the rain.
Also you had random cars just suddenly slowing down, and I was told that using a mobile while driving was not illegal but often people would drive erratically whilst doing it!!
Everything felt over the top. Like you couldnt go in a shop and buy a bag of crisps like we do here. You had to buy a jumbo bag that would feed 4 people. If you went out for a meal the single portion sizes were always big enough for two. Everyone had an obsession with 'truuucks' and the culture is so lazy, they even had drive through cash machines!!
I enjoyed my time there as a break but there was always a feeling of edginess, like I never felt safe.
Maybe it was just part of the areas I was in, but even when we went to New Orleans there was just a sinister feel.
I gues it is horses for courses at the end of the day but I dont think America would suit me. OP if you have not been, I recommend you visit a few places before deciding
