Is it fair that I was excluded from college?

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tom_e said:
Correct, all we've got to go on is how you come across in your writing which may or may not be how you come across in real life whether you notice it or not.
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I know the person in real and trust me they're different from what you are seeing here. I don't really like judging people due to them seeking help, especially not knowing the full situation and what actually happened.

As most people are saying (or would say) the understanding wasn't very high and provided when my friend actually went ahead and did it.

I don't agree with anyone as I go from reality.
 
Go to the meeting and apologise for your actions. Don't approach it in any other way as you are likely to get booted out - simple as.

As was said, don't try and shift the blame by saying "so and so does it also and I thought it was ok / fun /a test for you etc etc... "

You have to understand that this is an educational establishment where people are trying to do their jobs. Every year they have a very small percentage of problem kids / adults - who think they are funnier/smarter than everyone else - who decide to play pranks/jokes or say things that they have heard/seen a million times before.

Most importantly your actions prevented them from doing their job and they don't really owe you anything. They aren't liable for you and with the attitude you are displaying to them, they can let you go and not have to justify removing you from the course as you are currently a liability to them wasting resource time/money and educational hours on stuff that shouldn't have to be done.


Take a step back from what you see as your side of things, and appreciate how they see it. You need to mature-up quickly, because if you think this is tough - a job is 10 times tougher. And without the education - actually getting a job will be not just tough - but highly unlikely.
 
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Woden said:
DID YOU ORDER THE BSOD?
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Listen to my words but hear his face!

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Ivee said:
....the last dicipinary I had I had to sign a contract stating that I would use the computers sensibly but if they can do a BSOD prank on tutors and it be taken as a laugh and joke then what is the meaning of sensible?
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Unfortunately for you, it seems you didn't learn your lesson.

Pratting about, when you're already treading a fine line after being warned has put you in this position and you've only got yourself to blame.

Accidents happen, but doing something daft after being on a warning was just asking for it.

It's going to be a very harsh lesson for you and if you did this in a job later in your life, you'd have even harder consequences to face.

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Om du nu redan hade fått flera varningar sen tidigare, varför riskerar man det genom att göra liknande grejjer igen? Man skulle ju göra sitt yttersta för att vara försiktig och förnuftig i en sån situation.

När du går till ditt diciplinöra möte, se bara till att du ber om ursäkt massor och försök se till att du inte blir utslängd från skolan.
 
Efour said:
Om du nu redan hade fått flera varningar sen tidigare, varför riskerar man det genom att göra liknande grejjer igen? Man skulle ju göra sitt yttersta för att vara försiktig och förnuftig i en sån situation.

När du går till ditt diciplinöra möte, se bara till att du ber om ursäkt massor och försök se till att du inte blir utslängd från skolan.
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And if that doesn't work, speak to them in Norwegian to **** with their heads.
 
Yup, the tide of change when GD realises the OP is a Swedish girl.

"OMGZ that is so unfair OP, you should do something about it, good luck hun, hope it works out, kisses"
 
Heliospherez said:
Go to the meeting and apologise for your actions. Don't approach it in any other way as you are likely to get booted out - simple as.

As was said, don't try and shift the blame by saying "so and so does it also and I thought it was ok / fun /a test for you etc etc... "

You have to understand that this is an educational establishment where people are trying to do their jobs. Every year they have a very small percentage of problem kids / adults - who think they are funnier/smarter than everyone else - who decide to play pranks/jokes or say things that they have heard/seen a million times before.

Most importantly your actions prevented them from doing their job and they don't really owe you anything. They aren't liable for you and with the attitude you are displaying to them, they can let you go and not have to justify removing you from the course as you are currently a liability to them wasting resource time/money and educational hours on stuff that shouldn't have to be done.


Take a step back from what you see as your side of things, and appreciate how they see it. You need to mature-up quickly, because if you think this is tough - a job is 10 times tougher. And without the education - actually getting a job will be not just tough - but highly unlikely.
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basically this - you need to grovel, accept responsibility and ask to be given another chance.
anything else and if i were them i would boot you you out immediately and not have a second thought about it.
 
Ivee said:
You don't know the full story. I am genetical Swedish, doesn't mean I live in Sweden.
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I'm genetically a cucumber.

I do find the level of preaching and amount of "oh no, someone young did something stupid" quite hilarious. That is what happens in college. I know I certainly did, and it didn't stop me from growing up later in life or stop me from getting to where I am with a proper career.

@OP - Apologize. Accept the decision. Get on with your life. If you have to redo a year or go to a different college, it won't kill you. If you choose not to return and go and get a job, that won't kill you either.
 
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