I think what you will find is that the themes in that anecdote are not uncommon within these communities and are certainly symptomatic of the culture and religion itself.
no Christians are bias and judgemental of lots of things. They'll judge you for tatoos heck they'll complain abotu a tv program before it's aired.
All religion breeds the same ignorance and lack of tolerance it may appear more unreasonable and unfair from the eastern origins but part of that is becuase even if you're an atheist you were brought up a little bit tolerant of Christianity.
I'm not in anyway justifying it arranged marriages are bad and the shame people get for not living to them is stupid.
But it wasn't 40+ years ago that the same thing pretty much happened in the UK anyway. Wasn't until the 90's that divorce and such things became such a bearable reality. you were judged you were treated as weird if you couldn't keep your marriage.
They are a little bit behind and will eventually have to accept the reality of the western world even if they try and resist it now.
yet these UKIP muppets want to return Britain to that state.......... the state where people had honour and values to the queen god and country...... it's a double edged sword of retardedness.
The beauty of Britain is the freedom and equality you get to enjoy if you want to protect that you do not vote for ukip you learn to tolerate and deal with the changes that occur not matter how strange they may seem. Freedom means change, Change is always inevitable sometimes it may seem like you can't control it but you have to embrace it if you want to keep your freedom. as soon as you start making laws to protect you from others choices you remove your own freedoms. if you want to be a modern day slave go ahead vote ukip but you'll become the thing you believe you are currently trying to protect people from. TRAPPED.
don't mean you personally btw but anyone reading this thinking it would be better if we took back Britain or whatever moronic slogan they choose to believe in.
Diversity and acceptance is important but we can't make them accept our ways any more than they can make us. The harder we push the stronger they resist has history taught us nothing? The sooner all parties involved realise this the better.