i'm scared to partake in this thread anymore lol.
GF is seriously considering leaving as the stress just isn't worth it, the conditions in the café aren't great anyway 36oC today (planning permission for air-con refused by our stupid local council) and no breaks
she would not be entitled to maternity pay (so if her employer bothered to check that out she would know that already)
Although my OP has painted a certain picture of the situation that I probably can't explain my way around now I wanted to keep it as factual as possible.
Don't get me wrong I fully see this from a small business POV hence why I have repeatedly said not looking for special treatment or all out war with this woman, just to prevent this attitude she has had towards the GF since announcing the pregnancy.
GF works hard, very hard in fact and is good at her job. often asked to work extra hours with no notice, ie end of shift is 3, do you mind working till 5 today ?
no contract given to her yet
promised a certain shift rota at start that hasn't happened.
also she has not take 6 days off sick, she has taken 5 total, 1 being pregnancy related.
other staff comment that owner is lazy and doesn't put the work in that she should etc.
obviously not working there I don't fully understand the place but it seems very much to me she is not running a professional place and just doesn't want any hassle (which I get by the way) but I repeat again, you just don't treat people like that.
If it was me, the last thing I would want to ever do is stress out a pregnant woman and risk a baby's health.
To those of you who haven't attacked me, I appreciate your help and comments they have been very useful ~