Thanks to everyone who voted so far, but it's not looking like he will win![]()
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Thanks to everyone who voted so far, but it's not looking like he will win![]()
Having real issues with our one cat at the moment. We changed his diet and he has lost some weight and become a lot more lively. He has gone from sleeping all day and lazing about to a supreme hunter killer.
He has been through 2 collars in as many weeks. It never bothered him wearing a collar before, but this time he keeps losing them (getting out of them?) and as a result we are having birds and mice brought in and devoured all the time now. At least 2 a day usuallyBut we are both out a lot with work and he also does it at night when we are in bed and we wake up to the mess
Cant seem to find anywhere that sells buckled collars, and even if I could I am not sure I want him in something that could choke him if he got caught up on it.
Anyone got any good ideas?

Which came first? The cats or the dogs?
I have to say from what you describe it sounds like Bailey is the main problem, and dogs are far more time consuming to young families than cats are (not to mention the potential danger to a screaming newborn).
Easy for me to sit here and make comments, so forgive me if I have the wrong end of the stick here, but it does seem like the cats are being rehomed because you have a dog problem?
he has and always will be "her baby"

probably needs a bit of tough love then.. (the dog, not your missus)![]()

Neither of our cats wear collars/bells and I'm afraid they do both hunt now and again. It's not an "every day" thing, but they will bring back anything from moths to a rabbit.
We don't have any issue with them wearing a bell, however we will only ever use the collars that snap open - refuse point blank to use the secure fastening ones as we do not want our cats caught on something. The fact they have both lost 3 of these snap-release collars shows that they are getting themselves into situations where a "regular collar" could have proved deadly to them.
There is the initial safety issue followed by the cost issue. I'm sure it can be distressing, but if you "shoo" a cat away from your garden they are less likely to come back - they don't like hassle.
If you do decide on buckle collars we bought from this place in the link. Hand made and very good quality. Shipped from the US but postage wasn't much at all.
https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/veryvintage?section_id=5194558
Edit : not sure they're classed as buckle, but they have a hard time wriggling them off![]()

Leave the children alone too![]()

I'll be honest, I'm not sure of the difference! I take it Breakaway ones are "safety" collars where they can't strangle themselves? And quick release don't do that? They have some nice designs on that site, and delivery was surprisingly quick.
Sometimes, I want to kill all humans
Honestly, I post a simple question "What small tasty treats do cats like?"
And the only answer I get is "Leave the cats alone, we know you don't have a cat, so we're not going to tell you. You can't join our special cat owners club and you're a bad man if you feed anyone else's cat."
I didn't want or expect anyone to tell me what I should and shouldn't be doing. I'm an adult. I wanted an answer to a simple question, not a **** lecture on right and wrong.
P.S. If the owner is happy for the cat to come into my garden, then I will feel perfectly entitled to feed it. If the owner doesn't want me to feed it, then stop it coming into my garden. How's that?
And no, I *don't care* if you think I'm wrong or right. Answer the question or don't, but don't lecture me.
The cat is not a dog they have a right to roam and the owner has no idea where the cat roams and has no real way to stop it. Some cats like some stuff others don't there's no set specifics all you were advised is it's not usually a good thing to feed others cats for a whole variety of reasons.
The cat is not a dog they have a right to roam and the owner has no idea where the cat roams and has no real way to stop it. Some cats like some stuff others don't there's no set specifics all you were advised is it's not usually a good thing to feed others cats for a whole variety of reasons.
I didn't ask if you thought I should do it or not.
There is no law against leaving food on my property, or offering food to any cat on my property.
I honestly don't care if you think that's a bad idea. Do. not. care.

Get a packet of Dreemies. About a pound from the supermarket and most cats love them.
Shake the packet and pop a few on the floor near kitteh and walk slowly way backwards![]()
I had seen the advert but wasn't sure if they were really as delicious as claimed 

See that face?
That's his not caring face

My cat Jinx loves smokey bacon crisps and pulled pork with bbq sauce (from a burrito) I think it's the salty taste she likes though...
Sometimes, I want to kill all humans
Honestly, I post a simple question "What small tasty treats do cats like?"
And the only answer I get is "Leave the cats alone, we know you don't have a cat, so we're not going to tell you. You can't join our special cat owners club and you're a bad man if you feed anyone else's cat."
I didn't want or expect anyone to tell me what I should and shouldn't be doing. I'm an adult. I wanted an answer to a simple question, not a **** lecture on right and wrong.
P.S. If the owner is happy for the cat to come into my garden, then I will feel perfectly entitled to feed it. If the owner doesn't want me to feed it, then stop it coming into my garden. How's that?
And no, I *don't care* if you think I'm wrong or right. Answer the question or don't, but don't lecture me.