Man of Honour
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- 21 Nov 2004
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Love it, an 8 week summer
I don't agree. I started to do 4 days a week at work from this April and look after the little one (20 months old) 1 day a week.
I'd prefer to do 5 days at work to be honest. Having to constantly supervise the little one so she doesn't kill herself or break something in the house doesn't allow you to just sit there and watch TV. They also like interaction i.e. read to them, dress their dolly etc, which doesn't lend itself to being able to follow what's on TV. Then you've got to prepare their meals, clean up the mess they leave as well as do their nappies etc.
I'm sure when kids require less supervision and are more independent (3 years+?) you can just let them play with some Lego or something without fear of them choking to death.
It sounds like you want to sit on your arse for that one day a week to be honest. Of course children want attention and need to be supervised, but it's not difficult. Try having two! You just need to get our of the mindset that you're expecting a 'day off' if you look after your children.
I probably work harder on a working day, Up at 7, get the kids ready, drop them off to nursery, get to work an hour after I've left, pick them up on the way home from work and get their dinner ready. The days I have at home, going to the park or whatever are much easier.
Love my job. Good pay, loads of time off and I get to plane spot all day
I've come to regard the people I work with as 'people I've met' (10 points for knowing the reference)
I'm currently 'working' at the moment.
I love your job kahn! What field have you been working on?
used to - it's not a bad job, just unappreciated and too much BS for me. It's just the attitude as the enjoyment factor has left everyone and been replaced with 'it's the process' even though the process goes against everything we've been trained to do so frustration s very high!
I've never been without a job since I was 12 so I won't quit - hoping for voluntary redundancy as I'd take it in a heartbeat and this would force me to reconsider other options. I'd wait tables or work in a bar just to get money in whilst I retrained in something else. Considering moving to Australia so need to get a trade other than office worker on my CV.