Originally Posted by Fuzz View Post
I cant actually believe I'm reading that...
Change scenarios a minute to a woman getting raped...
Should she take personal responsibility for say... wearing a revealing outfit....
NO, because its the bloke that should take some personal responsibility and keep his **** in his pants!!
even judges are getting fed up with the drunk rape cases..... I remember a judge saying in a oxford paper that until ladies stop drinking so much out at night there will always be trouble with rape, most are so drunk they cant even remember what they just said (not alway the case) anyway... she should be grateful one of the lads didn't have the idea to give her a golden shower..... unlike some poor sods![]()
He deserves it. Moron.
It has no relevance in todays world.
The problem with rape is (mostly) men not being able to keep their pants zipped up.
That is where I am coming from with my change of scenarios, Sinai needs to have step back and look at what he wrote.
I have a right to fall asleep drunk... in a hedge if required and not be slapped around the face with some mans willy for japes.
It's not funny, it's not a joke, its not having a laugh, it's being a disgusting individual with no moral standards or as he put it, any personal responsibility.
It is, and now the person responsible is in prison.Yes its called personal responsibility.
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Right. But that doesn't mean it deserves prison time either.
What punishment would you suggest then?
For example what about kicking him out of Uni and making him pay a £50k compensation to the woman?
Do you know what prison is like for someone with an IQ above room temperature? Of course you don't, but I'd wager that you know your way around the comments section on the Dailymail website.
Right. But that doesn't mean it deserves prison time either.
I think hitting a stranger in the face with your penis constitutes an offence that should deserve jailtime, no matter who the stranger is, or the circumstances in which you find them.
Exactly. I would expect to spend a few months behind bars if i went up to a random woman in the street and started touching her with my johnson. Especially if i had a friend film it and distribute all over the place.
Do people think this should be allowed. Seriously? Those of you defending this guy, do you think men should just be able to do this to random women with little or no consequence?
I think jail time is a bit harsh. Not all crimes deserve a custodial sentence. I think getting booted out of Uni and a fine would have gotten the message across here. When I was at Uni I attacked and injured a guy with a knife while blackout drunk (yes, very messed up I know) and got a £250 fine and was moved to different halls. This dude goes to jail for a very tasteless and unpleasant joke. It doesn't seem proportionate to me.
I think hitting a stranger in the face with your penis constitutes an offence that should deserve jailtime, no matter who the stranger is, or the circumstances in which you find them.
How about taking responsibility for your own actions and not poking someone in the face with your ****?Victim shaming? I would say its saying the woman should take responsibility for her own actions.
Take a friend, don't get so hammered, or leave and go home instead of sleeping around loads of uni lads. Easy options to not end up in a situation where someone can get their shlong out and whack it on your face.
Maybe im less than sympathetic as i've woken up several times in, less than "ideal" circumstances shall we say, but the only person I blame is myself for not drinking more responsibly.
As they say. Live and learn.
I think jail time is a bit harsh. Not all crimes deserve a custodial sentence. I think getting booted out of Uni and a fine would have gotten the message across here. When I was at Uni I attacked and injured a guy with a knife while blackout drunk (yes, very messed up I know) and got a £250 fine and was moved to different halls. This dude goes to jail for a very tasteless and unpleasant joke. It doesn't seem proportionate to me.
There are plenty of guys getting away with suspended sentences or less for knocking strangers out a punch on a night out. But hitting someone with a penis is more "emotionally damaging" than breaking their nose with a fist, so that'll be 9 months sir.
There is a world of difference between two guys having a scrap, or even one guy hitting another for no reason compared to videoing yourself shoving your penis in an unconscious womans face. I'm amazed that even needs pointing out.
The sheer amount of posts in here implying that it's all OK, she should have expected it etc. is worrying really. I just cannot fathom how someone could rationalise putting their penis in an unconscious persons face as if it was the drunk persons fault for being asleep.
How about people just don't shove their penis in other people's faces?![]()
Were the police involved, or did the uni keep this an inhouse matter?
I am assuming he didn't press assault charges and you were never actually prosecuted and taken to court? If you were what you got was amazingly lenient.
There is a world of difference between two guys having a scrap, or even one guy hitting another for no reason compared to videoing yourself shoving your penis in an unconscious womans face. I'm amazed that even needs pointing out.
The sheer amount of posts in here implying that it's all OK, she should have expected it etc. is worrying really. I just cannot fathom how someone could rationalise putting their penis in an unconscious persons face as if it was the drunk persons fault for being asleep.
How about people just don't shove their penis in other people's faces?![]()