12 years of marriage

For me its 18 but I would naturally support my Son till he's done with education (within reason), maintenance to her will stop at 18 though and go to him.

You need to calm down and stop shooting from the hip. I moved to text, then didn't ever send the message I had written for a good hour or even a sleep after I had written it. You might think 50/50 is fair but if you move away you will get nothing, family law sides with the parent who has custardy, she needs the house and its contents for the kids, you get nothing. If I read you correctly you should stay there and let her leave if thats what she wants.

Stop talking and get advice!
 
peige said:
. If I read you correctly you should stay there and let her leave if thats what she wants.

Stop talking and get advice!
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this is very interesting, why should i give up everything.
but i don't see it as the best solution.

yes i will be getting some advice.
 
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I've just went through the entire thread again and tbh you know what the score is and if you still haven't gone for legal advice on what your options are then I'm pretty sure it's pointless anyone trying to help.

You need to stop posting on here and actually start the ball rolling with legal advice and planning on your future and your kid's futures now instead of looking at an internet forum.
 
i am moving out tonight (temporary as we are not getting along and its ****)
i said she can keep the car and house as there is no money in any of it.

she starts kicking off because she wont be able to afford the car insurance and that i should help her out lol... bangs head against wall.
i am giving up everything as the only losers are the kids if i take half.

i am going to live with a family member for a while and sort myself out, she should be starting a job next year so with me being self employed i can be flexible with taking and picking kids up from school and having them pretty much everyday it would seem.

this is for the best as the relationship is well and truly over, so now we need to think of ourselves and sort the kids out which i will be.

happy xmas
 
Hopefully when she has to fend for herself and work for a living she'll realise she had it good. Although it probably won't find her long to find another fella to milk.
 
And u wonder why men scared of marriage/commitments.

doubt i myself would remarry again. hell no.

you can still love and live with someone without being married.
 
teenwolf said:
i am moving out tonight (temporary as we are not getting along and its ****)


she starts kicking off because she wont be able to afford the car insurance and that i should help her out lol... bangs head against wall.

happy xmas
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And it starts :(

Try to enjoy Christmas Day the best you can mate, remember always be there for the kids (Goes without saying), My Dad left when I was 11 and my sister was 9. He tried to get back into our lives about 10 years ago, but the damage was already done. It would seem it hits you fairly hard as Children.
 
teenwolf said:
i am moving out tonight (temporary as we are not getting along and its ****)

i am going to live with a family member for a while and sort myself out, she should be starting a job next year so with me being self employed i can be flexible with taking and picking kids up from school and having them pretty much everyday it would seem.
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Don't just drop into the child care roll, its tempting and you need that contact but don't be a mug over it, you need a life too, don't let her plan it for you.

Good luck over Christmas, stay strong.
 
told her im not her baby sitter i want just as much access as her, she is fine with it (for now)

just looking i can get housing benefit and working tax to help so i should be able to rent a place quickly.

she is gone that's fine, now its time for me and my lovely kids.

by the way i am still seeing them xmas eve and xmas day and any day i like.

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Hopefully when she has to fend for herself and work for a living she'll realise she had it good. Although it probably won't find her long to find another fella to milk.
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exactly that.
she has not got a clue how its going to be.
yes its best we split for the kids i guess, but she living in a bubble.

if she gets this job she will get £700 a month.
outgoing now are £1200 without any food or clothing etc etc.
 
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teenwolf said:
told her im not her baby sitter i want just as much access as her, she is fine with it (for now)

just looking i can get housing benefit and working tax to help so i should be able to rent a place quickly.

she is gone that's fine, now its time for me and my lovely kids.

by the way i am still seeing them xmas eve and xmas day and any day i like.



exactly that.
she has not got a clue how its going to be.
yes its best we split for the kids i guess, but she living in a bubble.
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U see men have far more to lose then woman in a marriage.

forget teh fact that men can lose a lot of chunk of there wealth and assets, they can also lose access to kids.

So all who grew up without a father, i wonder how many of those is because of the father simply had no right legally to take care of them etc.

mind boggles and i hate it where the law favours the woman.

Listen not all woman are bad, far from it but what i am saying is that men can potentially lose more then woman when it all goes peer shape.

Fact is it doesnt even matter if its the womans fault or not, they still get the benefit
 
yes i lose everything.
no matter what i do she wins.
the hardest part is losing the kids obviously, but if i can get a house sorted quickly all is not bad.
like i said i should see them more than her if she goes full time.

so best to just walk away and let her realise how hard life is.
i will be there to support those kids the best i can, but most of all i will give them all the love in the world and make them happy and proud to have me as there dad.
 
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