This is really tasty and low kcal though rather high in sodium...
http://www.pigpigscorner.com/2010/03/chinese-chicken-and-potato-stew.html
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/food/calories/91742978
Instead of buying a butter chicken sauce pick up some onions, garlic, fresh ginger, fresh chillies, tomato purée and spices (cumin, coriander, fenugreek, turmeric will get you started). You can make a sauce in advance that will last you a good few days in the fridge, longer if you freeze.
edit: With regards to what you have eaten so far it's a bit hard to tell without proper weights/etc. The food mostly sounds fairly healthy. You don't need to completely cut sweet food out of your life though. If you start measuring things more accurately you can probably fit in something sweet as a treat on several (maybe all) days.
when you make stuff from scratch on my fitness pal can you add all the ingredients as you add them then divide down to servings at the end?
If anything that's likely to be on the high side for you. A bit more (good quality) fat wouldn't do you any harm.

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