Muslim family complains about non believer burial plot.

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A grieving family are facing the horror of exhuming their grandfather and moving him to another plot because the relatives of a Muslim man buried alongside complained about him being a non-believer.

Shadrack Smith, 89, died on January 13 after breaking his hip on New Year's Eve and developing pneumonia.

His family paid £2,500 for three plots at a multi-faith cemetery and had his grave facing towards his home - a Romany tradition.

But they were left shocked when a Muslim family who owned a plot next to Mr Smith's grave complained to cemetery bosses about their loved-ones being buried next to a "non-believer".

Just two weeks after his funeral, which was one of the largest ever held at the cemetery, the family have been warned Mr Smith's grave may have to be moved.

The local council, who run the award-winning cemetery, will meet on Wednesday to decide whether Mr Smith's grave will be exhumed and moved to another area of the cemetery.

His distraught family, which includes eight children, 25 grandchildren and 40 great grandchildren, have vowed to fight "tooth and nail" to stop any exhumation taking place.

His daughter-in-law, Tracey Smith, 46, said: "This whole thing has devastated our family.

Four days before the funeral, Burbage Parish Council received a complaint from the Muslim family who own the neighbouring plot.

Julie Perrin, principal officer of the council, wrote to Mr Smith's family and asked if they would consider moving Mr Smith to an alternative plot but they refused.

Mrs Smith, from Aston Firs, Leicestershire, added: "On January 26 Julie Perrin said we should find another site but she didn't even apologise to us.

"The next day our undertaker phoned saying the she had been on the phone to them to see if they could use one of our plots to plant a hedge as a kind of barrier.

"But the bodies will still be together six feet underground so what is the point?

"I just feel they should have stuck to the rules (being a multi-faith cemetery) from the beginning, instead of deeply upsetting us just to please the Muslim community.

"The council received our payment through the undertakers, but they haven't put our cheque through yet for some reason.

"There is no way Shady will be exhumed, if they suggest it we will take them to the highest court in the land. We will fight tooth and nail to stop the grave being dug up."

On the Burbage Parish Council website, a document titled "Burbage Cemetery: Regulations and Management Rules" makes no mention of segregation or separate areas based on religion.

Another council leaflet regarding the cemetery states: "So that people of all denominations can use Burbage Cemetery, the graveyard ground at Lychgate Lane is unconsecrated."

Chairman of the parish council, Councillor Richard Flemming, said: "Burbage Parish Council provides an award-winning cemetery for the benefit of the whole community.

"Unfortunately the parish council has recently received representation from two families regarding the allocation of adjacent grave plots within Burbage Cemetery.

"The parish council is sympathetic to the feelings of both families concerned and is committed to working with the relatives and the wider community to reach an amicable and acceptable solution."

The council said on Tuesday that the family of the Muslim man may have mistakenly believed his grave was in an Islam-only section of the cemetery.
Principal Officer Julie Perrin, said: "There was a huge level of complaint so the correct procedure has been followed.

"There appears to be an assumption or misunderstanding on the part of the family complaining because there is nothing in our policy documents about there being any segregation.

"Any application for moving a body would have to go through the Home Office if a family wanted that doing.

"There will be a meeting regarding the policy (of segregating graves depending on faith) where I hope the majority of the 20 councillors will attend but the families will not be represented there."

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/rel...-alongside-complain-he-was-an-unbeliever.html

Why is this even being debated by the council, the cemetery is multi faith, no rules appear to have been broken and yet one family is faced with possible having to exhume a dead relative!
 
If X isn't happy because Y is close to it and it doesn't like Y because of sky-pixies then X can pay to move elsewhere not force Y to move. How ****ing simple is that? :rolleyes:
 
Expected a DM link :D.

Personally I don't see why he should be moved. As has been said its a multicultural burial ground. At the end of the day they're both going through exactly the same process now they're dead.
 
They paid for the plot and there are no faith segregated areas, so surely the other family have no grounds to ask for the body to be moved. If they have a problem then they shoukd have their family member moved.
 
this is brilliant. Someone's head will explode!

'ahhh, which minority do we appease?!?!'
 
If they loathe us so much that they don't want to lie next to us in death, why would they want to live amongst us in life...
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Done care which religion, or not either are. But if one family aren't happy then they should move their relative and not impose their wishes on someone else.
 
I'm sorry but if that was my family member I'd be considering getting a dead pig and really giving them something to moan about.
 
I wonder how this story would've been reported if the Gypsy family had complained about their relative being buried next to a Muslim and had asked for them to be exhumed and moved instead?
 
The council appears to be denying that exhuming the body is even on the cards... The only source for this appears to be the gypsy family.
 
Lol. There's no chance of the body being exhumed without agreement. Any suggestion that there is is just sexing up by the article.

Nothing to see here, basically.
 
wouldn't the muslim be too busy shagging virgins in the afterlife or whatever to give a toss?

..and why we should allow anything other than a multi-faith cemetery to exist in this country is beyond me.
 
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What, are you saying gypsies would lie?

The shop I work in, it's in the village where I grew up, so I grew up around gypsies, yes I have heard some porkies in my time. :p

If a gypsy comes up to you and talks normally, he's probably alright. Worry when they start calling you "Sir" or "Miss" after every sentence, this is also known as "You might as well just hand over all your stuff to make this less complicated".
 
surely it should be the family who have issues with it who ought to move rather than their personal beliefs having to affect others, especially as it seems to have been down to a mistaken assumption on their part

on the other hand - gypsies AND muslims, daily fail must love this story
 
The council appears to be denying that exhuming the body is even on the cards... The only source for this appears to be the gypsy family.

Now the press are involved the council's press officer will be speaking on behalf of the council. The press officer is probably just trying to save face.
 
It seems like even the gypsies are making up stories about Muslims to make a quick buck. Which the media (especially the newspapers) love to buy.
 
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