Opinion on relationships(Fantasizing)

[lawrence281]

Opinions on fantasizing about other women whilst in a relationship. Somewhat it's normals for guys to do so, its not really cheating, just eye candy as such. I know women do the same lol

 

[Abraham]

jolly good

 

[Haggisman]

To quote a guy I used to work with:

"It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home"

 

[lawrence281]

jolly good

lol

 

[lawrence281]

To quote a guy I used to work with:

"It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home"

haha thats amazing

 

[Mat]

OP has guilty conscious, posts light hearted yet thinly veiled thread seeking justification. Haggisman obliges. OP is relieved, goes back to fantasies. GD's work is done for another day.

 

[John40]

Any red bloodied male who doesn't is rather strange I'd say.

 

[new boy]

why do you think men in a relationship cant look at pretty things?

 

[adam98150]

why do you think men in a relationship cant look at pretty things?

Some women go crazy about that, or if they know you look at certain things online.

I'm one of the lucky ones.

 

[OpenToSuggestions]

To quote a guy I used to work with:

"It doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as you eat at home"

That is brilliant! I will definitely use this phrase in my engineering office!

 

[bakes0310]

Have you ever had a hamburger and was thinking of a steak instead?

 

[OpenToSuggestions]

Have you ever had a hamburger and was thinking of a steak instead?

Not sure what you mean by that?

Unless you mean smashing a pasty thinking of a Bratwurst?

 

[Deleted member 66701]

Nothing wrong with window shopping.

In fact, often when I'm out with the wife she'll point out an attractive female and comment on her looks, clothes or heels (she knows I have a thing for heels) etc.

If the trust is there in the relationship that either party wont step outside the boundaries then it's all good

 

[bitslice]

In fact, often when I'm out with the wife she'll point out an attractive female and comment on her looks, clothes or heels (she knows I have a thing for heels) etc.

Maybe she's discreetly suggesting a lesbian fling

 

[StoutMeister]

Maybe she's discreetly suggesting a lesbian fling

With Hubby too....

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

Opinions on fantasizing about other women whilst in a relationship. Somewhat it's normals for guys to do so, its not really cheating, just eye candy as such. I know women do the same lol

If you mean this in an 'other people are still attractive even though I'm in a healthy relationship with a person I care deeply for 'then yes, fantasising seems okay to me. If you mean it in an 'okay, I've got to leave my wife and 3 kids because Sally in Accounts looks like she might be up for it, wahey!' then probably not so okay.

 

[Teknobry]

Window shopping is absolutely fine.

However going in the store and trying it on is completely not allowed!

 

[Mr Badger]

Have you ever had a hamburger and was thinking of a steak instead?

I was going to "Tom Cruise" the thread in a different fashion, however due credit for being quicker off the draw.

 

[bitslice]

Have you ever had a hamburger and was thinking of a steak instead?

Is that the difference between what the food looks like in the picture,
and what you actually get handed by the spotty kid in McDonalds?

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

Is that the difference between what the food looks like in the picture,
and what you actually get handed by the spotty kid in McDonalds?

Sometimes you just want a steak.
Also, the burger at home totally understands and supports you going out for some steak. Heck, the burger at home would probably like it if you brought the steak back home for her to taste, too. Or another burger. Or chicken nuggets.

You've answered your own question. You've got to slaughter the cows to get the steaks and then the hamburger will know you mean business. Then you get the hamburger to play some sexy roleplaying games like them old BK commercials with the daddy burger and the son burger (but this one would be someone else's daughter) and then you'd make some special sauce. If you bring home the chicken nuggets, that might be chick-fil-a sauce, but I can't say for certain.