Regarding commute, mine is similar (5hrs a day, 4 days a week) and have done it for longer than the 8 months you are targeting. My experiences are this:
-Dealing with the actual commute itself on a normal day is rarely a problem assuming you do most of it on a single train where you can get a seat. Just kick back and read / surf / watch catchup TV etc.
-The time away from home is what is annoying more than the actual act of commuting i.e. basically I get home at 20:15, we eat dinner and maybe watch a 1hr TV program before it is time for bed.
-Try to avoid having to take a connecting train (aside from the tube) as this just adds more potential for delays
In general if you only have a ~£180k budget this implies you probably don't have a massively well paid job. My recommendation would therefore be to rather than move somewhere and then look to get your job relocated there, do it the other way round. Cast the net wide and you'll have more jobs to choose from.
-Dealing with the actual commute itself on a normal day is rarely a problem assuming you do most of it on a single train where you can get a seat. Just kick back and read / surf / watch catchup TV etc.
-The time away from home is what is annoying more than the actual act of commuting i.e. basically I get home at 20:15, we eat dinner and maybe watch a 1hr TV program before it is time for bed.
-Try to avoid having to take a connecting train (aside from the tube) as this just adds more potential for delays
In general if you only have a ~£180k budget this implies you probably don't have a massively well paid job. My recommendation would therefore be to rather than move somewhere and then look to get your job relocated there, do it the other way round. Cast the net wide and you'll have more jobs to choose from.