Yes, I did, from a well-paid stable professional role that I hated, to running my own business which I alternately hated and loved....
Has anyone else packed it all in - and taken a huge risk - and come out on the other side? Did it pay off? How did you deal with the dark, demotivating moments..
Best day of being a screw was the final walk out of the gate. Most of my shift kept saying how the grass wasn't greener. Clearly shows how Prison on either side can change your mentality. They were clearly institutionalised.
The grass is much, much greener!
Yes, I did, from a well-paid stable professional role that I hated, to running my own business which I alternately hated and loved.
Did it pay off? For me, very much so. Over time, financially, I was far better off but more importantly, most of the time, far happier. Less stress. And after the first few years, more time with family.
How did I cope with demoralising moments? That's more of a book than a forum post. In short, in various ways. One was, in tough moments, reminding myself what 30 or 40 years of what I was doing would gave been like. Another was to remember it was all for the family. Another was to buckle down and just work harder. Another was to remind myself that every mistake and setback was a lesson learned and building for the future.
Perhaps the best method, for me, was to remind myself that if I tried and failed, then at least I tried. If I hadn't tried, I'd have lost all self-respect because my own cowardice would have doomed me to decades of a working life in a career I'd grown to detest.
Would I recommend it to anyone else? No, but I wouldn't recommend them not to, either. It's a very individual thing, and would depend what they were doing now, what they were going to be doing, and what kind of person they were.
For me, it was right. It worked, and it was the best move I ever made, despite some sleepless nights. Why did it work? I'd like to think skill, ability and hard work but in all honesty, while it took those, they weren't enough. It also took more than a bit of sheer good fortune. There were several moments when, rather like going all-in at poker, it could have blown up in my face. You do everything you can to increase the odds but sometimes, you just have to believe in yourself, grit your teeth and jump. And pray you decided right. There's no guarantee you did, up-front,
Went from generic disposable office bod (seriously, I got made redundant 5 times in 2 years), to an engineering officer in the merchant navy, where I find myself working on tankers for an oil major. It took me 3 years training as a cadet to get to where I am, surviving on crap wages and living in either dilapidated halls or squalid student flats when I was in college and not at sea.
Whenever I found myself wavering, I just kept my mind on the prize at the end.
I switched to IT after 5 years in the Royal Engineers working with tanks, explosives, mine clearance, civil construction, water supply etc etc.
No regrets.
Very interesting, you make it sound like such an easy decision which surprises me. I was under the probable naive impression that army life is hard to walk away from when you are actually getting stuck in to it.
for others you can perhaps take a slight dip, maybe make a lateral move or maybe even get a step up leveraging your previous experience in a different but perhaps complimentary field
Random question - I'm presently studying for the GMAT and it is a ball ache to say the least.
Has anyone else packed it all in - and taken a huge risk - and come out on the other side? Did it pay off? How did you deal with the dark, demotivating moments..