wait a second aren't you the furry?
where does wanting to fornicate with human/animal hybrids place you on this scale of birth to choice to drug caused mental disorders you're constructing?
Well that's the thing, isn't it. We all have kinks, perversions. Some minor, some major.
Who can state with complete authority that they chose to be this way, that they aren't suffering from any kind of mental disorder, that their life experience has no hand in it, or that their brain chemistry, etc, did not play a role?
All these elements are linked together to form us.
You cannot say "my choices define me", or "my life experience shaped me", or "my DNA determined me"... because they ALL do. It is a hugely complex interplay. We are the result of billions of inter-operating variables.
None of that makes sex through gender deception OK. None of that makes a delusion into reality.
Listen, I'm not saying this isn't complex.