I'm in the same boat as you. Got around £4500 to spend. FWIW I'm looking mainly at:
Toyota Prius
Honda Civic Hybrid
BMW 320d Touring
Subaru Outback
All of the above are within budget, are supposedly quite reliable, are very economical (with the 320d you ideally want the post-2008 Efficient Dynamics model, but that will be tough in this price bracket), are cheap(ish) to insure, and are a fairly decent size.
Just a word about insurance as Im a similar age and also looking at first cars. Avoid the Focus/Civic kind of thing - they still have a boy-racer image associated with them for insurers.
I found insurance on a 1.6 Corolla to be almost exactly half that of a 1.4 Focus, same with Almeras, Mazda 3s etc vs Focus/Civic.
Op wants reliable and you're suggesting a fiat/alfa...![]()
How do you guys feel about Mazda2s?
Apparently they're fiestas but mazdas. I quite like the look of them. I do prefer the 3, but There aren't too many at a good price.
I'm going to go and look at this on the weekend: http://www.autotrader.co.uk/used-ca..._medium=Email&utm_campaign=Email_a_friend_car
If I like it I will be offering closer to £4k.