"Tell me I'm pretty!"
Can't Understand the situation with this girl...haha
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"Tell me I'm pretty!"
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She is good looking for her age, plus does not wear make up.
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Why are you sniffing around a girl with a bf?
She probably will cheat yeah if you've got the sweg and shes been with dude 5 months.
But would you want to be with a girl who cheats? My friend did that... she cheated on him with multiple people a year later.
Use your head instead of your penis and to echo what advice people around me would give me... "get more girls bro".
She probably will cheat yeah if you've got the sweg and shes been with dude 5 months.
But would you want to be with a girl who cheats? My friend did that... she cheated on him with multiple people a year later.
Use your head instead of your penis and to echo what advice people around me would give me... "get more girls bro".
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More than likely cannot get it up on a comedown.
That's not even surprising, for a few possible reasons off the top of my head:
1) She's being honest about her feelings for him but she wants some casual sex while she's away from him.
2) She's feeling guilty about wanting to have sex with someone else and is compensating for it by over-doing display of affection for him.
3) She's no longer really all that interested in him and is over-doing display of affection for him to try to avoid ending the relationship.
4) He expects such public displays and will sulk if she doesn't do it.
I wouldn't care if she had a boyfriend, the only people who should be concerned about that are the two people in the relationship, if she's willing to give her number out and come over and watch a movie then she's clearly made her decision.
Not understanding this POV from people. She's not (I assume) engaged to her BF? OP is totally within his rights to go for it....just as this girl's BF would be within his rights to give OP a smack if he found out. What, people are supposed to get a BF/GF at 18 and that's it?
Life is never like that, thank god!Cognitive dissonance at its finest.
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haha not quite rustled, I am just curious how someone can judge someone else and dismiss what they have to say by the taste of their music
And another here? Why did you stop?? because he mentioned drum and bass?? Do you always automatically dismiss anything anyone else has to say if they have different taste than yours??
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lol quite
she is 18! As if this 'boyfriend' was going to be a serious long term thing anyway... especially when they're in different countries
Did some posters not have girlfriends when they were 18 or something? Did you not end up going to university and realised when you came home fro Christmas in first year you both basically hooked up with other people and it wasn't going to work.... At 18, most female students with 'boyfriends' back home probably never kept that 'faithfulness' much longer than freshers week IME.
she is 18! As if this 'boyfriend' was going to be a serious long term thing anyway... especially when they're in different countries
Did some posters not have girlfriends when they were 18 or something? Did you not end up going to university and realised when you came home fro Christmas in first year you both basically hooked up with other people and it wasn't going to work.... At 18, most female students with 'boyfriends' back home probably never kept that 'faithfulness' much longer than freshers week IME.
So basically, here's the story, i'll try keep it simple and short.
I went out to a dnb rave about 2 weeks ago and met this girl, 5minutes within talking we exchanged numbers etc.
She's 18, from netherlands, studying in the uk until feburary and cute as hell.
We hit it off, was texting nonstop for 2-3 days, same interests, love for dnb music, banter was flowing, we constantly made each other laugh.
Also ended up telling me she also has a bf back in Dam, shes been together with for 5 months and apparently "First guy she's been in love with" blablabla.
Anyway, we ended up going for a coffee, nothing but laughter through the night, I could tell she enjoyed my company. Then went for one drink and decided to go see a movie, so we went. To cut it short, I kept noticing she kept eyeing me and looking at me during the movie..so i thought I'd make the move, i was kissing her down her neck..slowly going a bit lower and tried to go in for the kiss but she moved away(undeceive)
She explained everything next day that she was overthinking etc etc
Then next time she came round mine to watch a movie, and i was it was chilled but i had the notion she wanted me to make a move or something..because next day she wasn't really replying or talking to me at all.
(Also to mention, her boyfriends a dealer, so the love may be in the wrong place)
Was there signs she basically wanted to cheat..? because she told me she "didnt want to lose her boyfriend" but..kept throwing signs
Wonder what genius said "girls you can't live with them, you can't like with out them" needs to be put in the history books, he knows what he was talking about... Anyway, yes saying females are a tease is not crazy, plus the crazy thing is they can do it, but if a guy does it OMG the world is ending... I know this woman, she looks great, good voice also & she is a little huggy with people at times (wants to be wanted), but I am sure if anyone got to close she would do the OMG what are you thinking/doing thing & she is married...
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Yeah I know..im 22..but for some reason I usually get 18/19 year olds that always catch my eye lol, or i guess just usually get along better, wound't say im that "nature" in a sense, depending on location. I just crack too many jokes(p.s I have mild tourret's, so random outbursts of random crap i come up with haha)
No harm in a little banter...and ROLL on xmas!
I honestly dont do relationships, im not the type, but i do get attached slightly to certain girls but i liked her, woudn't mind getting into bed just for the sake of it, primitive instinct m8
Thats pretty on point, from the posts he puts up..hes a melt, even announces "feeling down" kind of bs just so she sees. But another point to add is...she gets free drugs....so thus why she woudn't want the relationship to end once she goes back in Jan
OP failed to bang hot girl.
GD is disappoint
There's still hope..I can turn this around..i'll see at a rave in 2weeks and work my charm! I GOT THIS, BELIEVE IN ME BROTHA.
As long as you're not on a come down, you want to be doing the opposite mate.
How is that ad hominem? It's not attacking your character, it's a statement of objective fact. Look up what cognitive dissonance is.
On point with the argument itself:
Cheating is wrong. Cheating on someone is an extreme betrayal of trust, and for those who are cheated on, it is an incredibly painful thing to go through. I am a firm believer in the golden rule and in applying understanding and empathy to the human condition. It doesn't matter if you're not the one in the relationship, you are party to facilitating the act as you are aware of the facts.
If you are helping to facilitate cheating, you are actively breaking the golden rule for selfish gain. You may not be in the relationship so are not the one directly betraying the other individual, but you are still engaging in the act at someone else's expense for your own gain and that makes you almost as bad as the cheater themselves.
Your cognitive dissonance is essentially this: "I don't care, I'm not the one in the relationship here therefore I'm not doing anything wrong." It's a weak argument and you're playing mental gymnastics to justify being able to get your end away. You are still party to the act of betraying and hurting someone.
It all boils down to selfishness.
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Nah..i think she wants straight forward and confident straight on her face..distant and respectful doesnt work anymore lads
Ya guess so...If i dont know him..it doesnt matter if hes in a different country
Uhhh, I shall towards the end of this week due to uni..but I just know how women tend to move on quickly to other guys for their "attention" and easily just drop them..so not getting my hopes up
Don't dither even longer, just get stuck in. It's not like uni work can't wait. If you haven't been up to your nuts in guts by Wednesday evening then you may aswell go and buy a pack of cooked ham.
Also, really want to hear what you said on the comedown.
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