Soldato
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Well Adele and Lionel Richie better watch their step in future![]()
Nah, they'll safe.
Now if a white male did the same, the police would be on him like a tramp on chips.
Well Adele and Lionel Richie better watch their step in future![]()
Unless, of course, its a good looking man. Then its seen as a compliment![]()

So basically its no difference to a documented visit by the police to have a word with the person in question? That said it's still a massive thing to hold over someones head, especially if they have no idea why it was served AND if the accused can't even provide their side of the story to see if it was served correctly. I think a reasonable understanding of WHY you have done something wrong in this sort of situation is the least they can be given.
My point is there are two sides to every story, I very much doubt many people would just shrug that sort of thing off, whether it was legitimate or not.
That wasn't the point I was making. If the victim essentially made up a story to get one served then it seems fairly legitimate for someone to ask "WTF", and in a court of law I doubt it would swing a case.
Lets put it this way, if the case was tenuous at best, and the accused sent one last message asking (reasonably) what was going on, then I certainly wouldn't hold it against them as a member of the jury.
If on the other hand it was threats and accusations then thats a different story. And there in lies the problem with both warnings and non judicial orders, lack of investigation and only one side of the story. And the problem with people jumping on someone for stating their side of the story on the internet.
Or they might say " isn't it nice that people are respectful to one another? ".
I'm actually really surprised we haven't reached the stage looking at a woman for 20 - 40 yards as she eventually walks past you or even a smile towards said person isn't classed as harassment yet.
Is it respectful to inflict a permanent official record on someone for saying "hello", formally labelling them as an abuser for the rest of their life without even a theoretical chance of a defence? Part of the point of harassment rules is that they're deliberately created to make defence impossible because doing so would require the ability to read minds.
I'm not convinced that it is respectful. Especially when irrational prejudices are involved, as they inevitably are because they are sadly common in society.
What is it with people being melodramatic? A PIN is not evidence of abuse, it assumes no guilt. It's simply a way to tell someone that a particular person doesn't want any further contact.
You also need to remember that PINs aren't handed out to everyone that is accused of harassment. Officers have discretion about where its appropriate and usually you get a good idea of what's happening by viewing texts, Facebook messages etc. You won't have the full story, but you will know if there's a story to work out.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and suggest you're a white male?
I know and talk with a lot of people who were alive in the 1950s, including quite a few who were adults in the 1950s. Several hundred, due to my job.
Every single one of them who has said anything about the subject has said exactly the same thing you've just replied to - that people were far more polite, far more respectful to each and there was a far stronger sense of community.
About one quarter of those people are "white" men. My mother, who was a woman in the 1950s, has said repeatedly that women were better off in the UK in the 1950s than they are now. That's a common view amongst women who were women in the 1950s. I work in bingo, so many of the people I talk with are women old enough to have been adults in the 1950s. I have quite a large sample size.
Don't be silly.
If a man has a formal police record of being considered guilty of harassing a woman, people will assume that he's guilty. Even if was "just" a warning (and it isn't really, since it's considered evidence of guilt in court), few people would dismiss it.A simple unsubstantiated accusation by a person in a higher status group against a person in a lower status group is enough to cause widespread assumption of guilt. When it's the police doing it, when it's a formal action by the arm of the state tasked with upholding the law and maintaining good order, the assumption is stronger and more widespread.
Thank you for clarifying that a PIN is an assumption of guilt and considered proof of guilt. The idea that there might or might not be some sort of perfunctory beginning of an investigation beforehand doesn't change that. Besides, it would be risky for a police officer to refuse to issue a PIN if a person in a "right" biological group wanted it done. THIS POLICE OFFICER WON'T PROTECT WOMEN FROM HARASSMENT! It could cause a lot of trouble for them and for the police force they work for. I know courage is required for the job, but there are limits.
A PIN does not constitute a 'formal police record', is not an assumption of guilt, and certainly isn't evidence of guilt in court either. The issue of a PIN is based on the evidence available and the accusation made, and nothing to do with biological group or status.
You're basing your post on a number of assumptions that are nonsense.
Have you considered that people generally have fond memories of when they were "younger" and retrospectively mistake the more happy-go-lucky attitude they had then compared to the older bitter them now with reality? [..]
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I don't agree with either side, by the way. Their view is tinged by the rosy spectacles of remembered youth. [..]
I have to give the met office 5 days notice before sex. Because I bring the thunder!
BOOM!!!!!
PINs aren't recorded by the police?
PINs aren't recorded by the police?
People don't assume that an official record by the police implies guilt, especially when guilt is often assumed even without that record?
A man accusing a woman of harassment will be regarded in exactly the same way as a woman accusing a man of harassment?
I think you're basing your post on assumptions that are nonsense.
Yes. As are witnesses and victims of crimes, registered keepers of motor vehicles, business owners, anyone who contacts the police to report an incident, keyholders, neighbourhood watch co-ordinators, and countless other things.
That might be theoretically true in a strictly legal sense, but it isn't true in reality. A conviction in court isn't required for a person to be thought to be guilty. A formal notice by the police will certainly do, except for people who automatically assume the police are always wrong.None of those would imply a person's guilt either. Only a conviction of a crime in court would do that.
So it's not ever available to anyone other than a trained professional who even thinks according to a strict interpretation of "innocent unless proven guilty"? Never disclosed on a background check, for example? Never referred to on social media by anyone outside the police?No. Or not by anyone who would have access to the information anyway.
No. Maybe by the police, but not in general.Yes.
General society rather than the police, who aren't normal in many respects regarding the law (and shouldn't be - it's right for them to be more impartial and more rational).I'm basing my posts on factual knowledge of the subject at hand and first hand experience. And you?
A PIN is simply a way to avoid a defence if it ever went further and gives someone the opportunity to avoid any further police involvement.
Legally the Police are allowed to disclose details of a PIN on an enhanced DBS or PVG check as 'Other Relevant Information', no guilt required, should they decide it's necessary.