What would life be like, we are only here due to the dinosaurs being killed off by a meteor strike. If early evolution of the human race had to compete with these creatures would we be here now?
So given the 1 in x chance of the human race actually evolving to where we are now. Applying that to the rest of the universe would still leave a large number of possible human like races. Would there not be more chance of reptile like (dino) races if that's what happens naturally from the primordial soup. Taking out one of the factors that allowed the human race to develop, meteor strike killing off the number one spices at the time, wouldn't the be a greater chance of life in other parts of the universe NOT being human like.
There's life Jim but not as we know it.
Many things effect the development of a species, look whats happens to humans in space, bone mass, heart size etc etc. Also the different evolutionary adaptation across the human race. Evolution is not only limited to where the planet is in a solar system, atmosphere, cosmic radiation(goldilocks zone ) but where on the planet it evolves. The basics are the same but expand that over the universe and the diversity should be huge.
The possibility of there being life is great, now to solve the issue of detecting it and making that knowledge public.
While I kinda agree with you there have actually been 5 mass extinction events, and a sixth is currently underway.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extinction_event
The KT extinction isn't even the biggest, that was the Permo-Triassic. Humans and dinosaurs are/were around largely because of "luck", their precursors being able to exploit the holes left by mass extinction better than the other organisms at the time.
The idea we are the "apex of the apex" species - that somehow our physiology and form is the epitome of intelligent life throughout time and space - is wrong in my opinion. There could easily be plenty of other intelligent life taking different forms, we and what we look like now are just a creation of our history, including those mass extinction events, earths mavity, atmosphere and the makeup of the earths crust. Change any of those and a totally new form could have evolved. For all we know if the Permo-Triassic event hadn't occurred a totally different form of intelligent life could be on earth right now, with technology far advanced for what we have.
Same with comments about technology. That's unlikely to be true. For example if we hadn't discovered oil the we may well have skipped the oil age and jumped straight into an electric age - if we didn't discover nuclear fission perhaps we would already be at fusion or some other form of clean energy, perhaps that could have fitted perfectly with space exploration. Exploiting of tech and evolution of species both go in fits and starts, not much movement then suddenly an event that causes "hyper" evolution where discoveries and changes occur rapidly - dead ends die out and only those that have adapted the best survive. Those would be very different depending on the planet they occurred on.
We see this in some ways by looking at cultures throughout the world, where some cultures value different things, and discovered different things at different times, in different orders. Many of these cultures have now died out, being swallowed and out competed by other cultures, who in turn may have been outcompete by yet more cultures with different technology and "better" things (eg weapons). Heck, even blind luck is in play here. Look at the Minoans, an advanced culture pretty much destroyed by a large volcanic eruption.
So in summary "intelligent" life certainly doesn't need to look like us, have the same physiology or the same technological roadmap. Hopefully one day we may see that there is a vastly different life form to us in the oceans of moons surrounding the Giants. Which leads to the next question - would be even recognize life if we saw it, if it was so different to ours?
Would we be able to recognize an organism in its dormant state - for example a microbe on Mars that only becomes active when it is in contact with water? We know from earth that microbes (and multicellular organisms) can stay in dormant states for thousands of years, looking almost unlike life. There is no reason this couldn't be the same on other planets, in fact it's actively being researched on places like Mars where we believe water does flow occasionally.
Interesting article -
https://www.sciencenews.org/article/will-we-know-extraterrestrial-life-when-we-see-it
So in answer to the original question - if we are lucky we may well find life in the next 20-50 years, although "intelligent" life will probably take longer than that.