What else was he going to do?
Ebay would have made him give a refund anyway
Ebay can't make anyone do anything.
Ebay can't make anyone do anything.
Not an ebay user?
Ebay will decide for you and then take your money.
hence... forcing you
Have now refunded, so case closed I guess. Told her to bin it or put in at the local charity shop.
Lesson learned for next time, if I bother with Ebay again, is photograph anything over a certain value (although that's no more proof than the sender's images) and pay a bit extra for recorded delivery.
you started a thread, got good advice, but gave up anyway without ounce of fight?you started a thread, got good advice, but gave up anyway without ounce of fight?
What do you mean by blotting your copybook?Not exactly, having called the person out with an initial refusal to refund I assessed the situation - taking into account the advice given - it wasn't after all things considered worth stringing things out, getting bad feedback and blotting my copybook with Ebay & Paypal. Lessons certainly have been learned and the post also illustrates to other Ebay users that even selling low value relatively robust items can bring trouble.