I can't see how you can dictate terms for this though? What if the guy works shifts or is otherwise unable to meet you. I assume you'll be going in guns blazing "I'll meet you after I finish work at 6pm" etc, which might not always suit everyone.
It just doesn't work and won't be his decision anyway. The guy will claim via eBay and PayPal will refund the money. The OP won't have a say in the matter.




