New London Cafe proposed with rather 'adult' extras

ttaskmaster said:
1/. Morals are subjective. What you find reprehensible, other people quite enjoy.

2/. As a married man, I promise you - Paying for it is much cheaper... financially, mentally, emotionally, ecumenically, grammatically!!

3/. These girls likely make far more money and make it honestly from doing this than working in an executive job in a private company, where they make dishonest money from ripping off hundreds of customers.

4/. You don't have to go here if you don't want to... Costa and Starbucks are just as open to taking your money...
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I'm very open minded. And each to their own. If both parties are happy. Ie not coerced I don't in theory have a problem.

Unfortunately I think I belong in a bygone era. I get no enjoyment from one night stands. Thus it's a relationship or nothing. If I get the instinctual urge then it's a cheap fixed on my own. I get no satisfaction from it. Just relief of the feeling.

And yep I can completely see why girls do it if they can separate sex from intimacy. Its so easy money it's crazy. (unfortunately I had my eyes opened to it). I'm actually surprised more don't do it. Especially people with no qualifications and poor standard of living. You don't have to be attractive, good looking etc.
It's actually depressing that it is so easy for a girl with the ability to detach sex from intimacy to be able to make so much money with no training, qualifications etc. Escorts make so much with so little work just by being a girl who can detach.

I will never see the money that an 18 yo girl can make who puts a lot into this work.
One night, 1000 pounds cash? Completely achievable. More likely a third but I'm guessing in London with high earning men.. Its not far off
2 or 3 nights work can be equivalent to 40hr week for most peo. Crazy
 
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413x said:
I'm very open minded. And each to their own. If both parties are happy. Ie not coerced I don't in theory have a problem.
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In theory?

413x said:
Unfortunately I think I belong in a bygone era.
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Which is what, exactly?
Where everyone follows a dictated set of moral and social regulations?
Society changes... It wasn't so long ago that we were laughing at the mere idea of those female creatures having a vote...!!!

413x said:
I'm actually surprised more don't do it. Especially people with no qualifications and poor standard of living. You don't have to be attractive, good looking etc.
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You'd be surprised how many people do something along these lines, to varying degrees. The advent of online interaction has paved the way for an even greater range of options, made safer by the physical separation.

413x said:
It's actually depressing that it is so easy for a girl with the ability to detach sex from intimacy to be able to make so much money with no training, qualifications etc.
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Even more depressing when you understand that many of them find such things to be an extremely intimate experience.
But most depressing is that men can (supposedly) more readily make that detatchment, yet are far less in demand in such an industry than women.

413x said:
Escorts make so much with so little work just by being a girl who can detach.
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A 'proper' escort, ie one who is just a hired +1 for an event, doesn't even need to detatch for her part. She just needs to look pretty on the arm of a businessman or whoever, not say anything stupid and generally have fun at some charity ball.

413x said:
One night, 1000 pounds cash? Completely achievable.
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Become a musician. Join a band. Work on Christmas and New Years evenings at a half-decent place. Cruise ships can be quite profitable, too.
You might even get free sex off a groupie here and there... though that tends to be singers and lead guitarists.

413x said:
More likely a third but I'm guessing in London with high earning men.. Its not far off 2 or 3 nights work can be equivalent to 40hr week for most peo. Crazy
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For me that's more like 2-3 months... before tax.
But there are people with money outside of London, too. Even here in Reading, there's plenty of folk with rolls of Fifties just waiting...!
 
ttaskmaster said:
In theory?


Which is what, exactly?
Where everyone follows a dictated set of moral and social regulations?
Society changes... It wasn't so long ago that we were laughing at the mere idea of those female creatures having a vote...!!!


You'd be surprised how many people do something along these lines, to varying degrees. The advent of online interaction has paved the way for an even greater range of options, made safer by the physical separation.


Even more depressing when you understand that many of them find such things to be an extremely intimate experience.
But most depressing is that men can (supposedly) more readily make that detatchment, yet are far less in demand in such an industry than women.


A 'proper' escort, ie one who is just a hired +1 for an event, doesn't even need to detatch for her part. She just needs to look pretty on the arm of a businessman or whoever, not say anything stupid and generally have fun at some charity ball.


Become a musician. Join a band. Work on Christmas and New Years evenings at a half-decent place. Cruise ships can be quite profitable, too.
You might even get free sex off a groupie here and there... though that tends to be singers and lead guitarists.


For me that's more like 2-3 months... before tax.
But there are people with money outside of London, too. Even here in Reading, there's plenty of folk with rolls of Fifties just waiting...!
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Just addressing the first couple of points
I don't fit in with the sex detached from intimacy. As a person I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't have a bond with. No gratification from it. This seems to be less and less common of a view.
 
413x said:
Just addressing the first couple of points
I don't fit in with the sex detached from intimacy. As a person I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't have a bond with. No gratification from it. This seems to be less and less common of a view.
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I think perhaps because sexual incompatability is/was so often a factor in breakups, more people have decided to investigate that side of things as a priority while the rest of the bonds and things develop. There are even those who've been burned so badly by such bonds that an experience free of such burdens is their highest desire.

You're not alone, but times are a'changing in this backward little nation. Long as you can accept other peoples' perspectives on it, all should be well.
And TBH - Lucky you if you're so beset with the opportunities for unbonded, meaningless sex that you can turn it all down... There are pubs and nightclubs full of people who can only dream of such offers!

Horses for courses, but one horse is not really higher than another so long as each can run their respective courses!
 
ttaskmaster said:
I think perhaps because sexual incompatability is/was so often a factor in breakups, more people have decided to investigate that side of things as a priority while the rest of the bonds and things develop. There are even those who've been burned so badly by such bonds that an experience free of such burdens is their highest desire.

You're not alone, but times are a'changing in this backward little nation. Long as you can accept other peoples' perspectives on it, all should be well.
And TBH - Lucky you if you're so beset with the opportunities for unbonded, meaningless sex that you can turn it all down... There are pubs and nightclubs full of people who can only dream of such offers!

Horses for courses, but one horse is not really higher than another so long as each can run their respective courses!
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Oh yeah I certainly don't have an issue with it. Pretty much always of the impression that people can do what they want if everyone is happy

I'm glad I haven't been born now with this mindset as finding someone with similar values might get hard.
I'm no prude, so also like a partner who is quite sexual. Suppose have to have lol!
 
Would hate to be part of the maintenance team for those robots.

Will they go through a cleaning cycle before the next user 'logs on'?
 
Xordium said:
Seems quite a low price I am not so sure the girls are going to look quite like that picture.
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You'd be surprised... it's actually quite pricey... especially when you consider everything in Switzerland is more expensive.

Just over the border in Germany it was 50 Euro for half hour "full service" (blowjob without condom and sex with).

In Switzerland, depending where you went... it ranged from 70CHF for 15-30 minutes "full service".

You get soft drinks and coffee for free with that too :P

Not all girls are the most attractive... but I certainly found some I was happy with...
 
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