Much like your examples my criteria isn't quite that clear cut. To answer this question directly I think it's because there tread pattern is speficially diesnged to give optimum grip in snow / ice at sub zero temperatures, and there performance everywhere else is compromised because of this.
To pose the question another way. If winter tyres are so good in cold and damp conditions, why is it so hard to find a test of them against ultra high performance summers in this scenario? If they truly were better I'd imagine it would be plasterd everywhere. In truth, I'd wager they outclass all on snow / ice, beat something like an ecocontact in cold and wet, but get spanked by something like a sport contact 5. Unfortunately if people knew this they likely wouldn't sell as many in this climate.
Are sport contact 5s the standard tyre on your average new stock Mondeo or Focus now?
But I agree broadly in principle. A high performance summer tyre may well beat a good winter in marginal cold/wet conditions (your aforementioned 5 degrees and wet) if you're looking for something to hold on as much as possible when your thrashing round a corner or hitting the breaks hard. That's going to change significantly when you hit that patch of frost, or ice, or it snows, or you're heading back home one evening in December and the temperature is hovering around freezing.
The problem is, as I mentioned, most people aren't using high performance aftermarket tyres, they're using the ones that came as standard with their new car, or the ones their dealership put on when they had it serviced. Mid range/decent tyres that are fine in most conditions, but will probably be outpaced in most situations during a UK winter.
Personally I'd rather lose a bit of performance in places where it's not needed for significant gains in areas it is needed. Most people aren't going to spin out going round a corner or slide 50ft at the lights when it's 5 degrees and a bit wet no matter the tyre, but the winter may just stop you doing that on a cold winters evening.
As I said originally, it's marginal in the UK, and whether it makes sense economically is up to the person themselves, but to suggest because the UK doesn't get lots of snow and ice winter tyres are pointless is short sighted. We didn't put winter tyres on in the UK for example.
As the OPs in Canada I'd definitely recommend winter tyres no matter the vehicle. We got two sets for both our vehicles (RWD pickup and a fwd VW).