I have this viewpoint too. I can never be bothered to question things though. Sometimes I see threads locked / deleted for being pointless according to the mod who took action only for a mod to start a totally pointless thread not long after. Life's too short to worry about it though, the dynamics of the forum will change over the years that's just how it is and if we don't like it we don't have to use it.
If you don't raise questions then we can't take on board any criticism you might have. We don't always get it right, but behind the scenes we do discuss a lot of decisions and actions and are critical of ourselves and each other.
Having moderators from different backgrounds and that change over time, there will always be differences in opinion and interpretation of the rules, but on the whole I think we are relatively fair and we do take on board constructive criticism.